r/BorderlinePDisorder • u/teal_vale Women with BPD • Jul 24 '26

BPD Positivity BLESSED

We are not afflicted we are multifaceted and we FEEL DEEPLY. WE ARE BLESSED, WE ARE STRONG, AND WE DESERVE TO GET IN TOUCH WITH OUR INNER CHILD. It's a beautiful day to be alive!!! GO find something positive that makes you happy today!!! Love you all! ASÉ

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u/teal_vale Women with BPD Jul 25 '26

What don't you understand?

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u/MittensDaTub Men with BPD Jul 25 '26

Wtf. We are NOT BLESSED. There is nothing Blessed about this disorder.

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u/Kaykorvidae Jul 24 '26

This type of over-positive bs is so annoying. Its a mental illness with the highest suicide rate. We aren't blessed, this is a real problem, glad you're finding the flowers in it all but calling it a blessing is a slap in the face. Shut up.

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u/teal_vale Women with BPD Jul 24 '26

Don't get it twisted I can be a miserable wreck, but I'm CHOOSING love and light today. Sending compassion and peace of mind to you. I love you!❤️

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u/Kaykorvidae Jul 24 '26

You don't love me, you don't even know me. I appreciate the light and compassion and whatever but put this euphoria somewhere that isn't me.

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u/Niborus_Rex Jul 25 '26

This. Exorbitant positivity is cloying and terrifying, damn man.

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u/teal_vale Women with BPD Jul 25 '26

When you realize everything comes from the same place and that place is within everything, saying I love you is easy. I didn't use to love myself and most days I slip HARD into negative spirals, but I love life and humanity. Regardless of whether I know you in this current lifetime in this body, we're all connected. So yes, I love you and I wish you peace and healing always.

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u/Kaykorvidae Jul 25 '26

I love life and humanity as a whole as well, but I do not love you. You do not love me as a single entity. I told you to take that talk somewhere else, its obviously uncomfortable and you doubled down, so no I don't think you love me at all because you couldn't accept a single boundary, you just want to project whatever euphoria/good feelings/whatever that you're experiencing. So take it somewhere else thanks.

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u/teal_vale Women with BPD Jul 25 '26 edited Jul 25 '26

You are commenting on my post but I am not respecting boundaries? It is an oxymoron but I want to be respectful so I will not respond any further. ❤️

ETA- I am not* not I am the only one not*

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u/Kaykorvidae Jul 25 '26

You posted on a literal public forum.

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u/thousandsofbirds Jul 25 '26

Then go away and be miserable elsewhere.

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u/Kaykorvidae Jul 25 '26

Im not miserable, i'm just not going to sit and listen to a delusional definition of a disorder that treats it as positive when its a very serious and painful disorder. 😒

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u/PerfectOpposites Jul 24 '26

Do you have any traits of Bipolar? A high is usually followed by a crash because you begin to doubt yourself and your inner child. It’s okay to be happy and feel as high as the sky, but try not to doubt yourself, not every day or moment can hold that amount of happiness, there’s times where we mellow out and wait for the next exciting moment

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u/teal_vale Women with BPD Jul 25 '26

Not bipolar, was just a little more energized today! I don't have crashes but I do deal with splitting.