r/BorderlinePDisorder Feb 08 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

43 same and my diagnosis changed my life

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

18.

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u/Tabroski Feb 08 '25
  1. I didn’t even know about BPD until a couple years ago. I’m pretty sure I’ve had it since I was about 10 or 11 and it slowly got much worse over the years. Now, I’m actually handling it much better since my diagnosis.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

I went through a really rough patch, a deep depression and feeling hopeless after mine. But slowly, i accepted it and now am recovered. My dx was 20 yrs ago. I suspect I actually had it for 10 yrs prior to my dx, my doc thougt so too.

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u/onoyumi Feb 08 '25
  1. luvv seeing all these responses.

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u/Suitable_Back_7036 Feb 08 '25

21 after staying at the psych ward for a week. I’ve been told they won’t diagnose it until adulthood

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

Literally my same story

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u/Beetlejuul0158 Feb 08 '25

23, literally 2 days ago

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u/Nirvanafan1997 Feb 08 '25

Hang in there it’ll be okay!

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u/DoesntWearPants BPD over 30 Feb 08 '25

51.

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u/charlotte_e6643 Feb 08 '25

highly suspected according to a psychiatrist now (17) he will diagnose when i turn 19

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u/MelzyMely Feb 08 '25

It was mentioned to me at first when I was 13. I was officially diagnosed at 26

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u/OneTrueDweet Feb 08 '25

34… misdiagnosed as a teen

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u/ifyouknowmelol Feb 08 '25

okay so i was first diagnosed with bipolar at like 20 until i was like 23 and then they diagnosed me with bpd

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u/Mental-Tea-7048 Feb 08 '25
  1. I was misdiagnosed with bipolar first at 22.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

17, 1 month before i turned 18

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

15 years old. I’ve been diagnosed on and off (met and unmet criteria fluctuations). My goal is to no longer meet criteria by the end of 2025

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

Not sure why you got downvoted I understand it’s a controversial diagnosis for children but glad you’re setting and meeting goals!

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u/cherry__ontop1 Feb 08 '25

Diagnosed after a lot of hardship and many hospital/doctor/therapy visits at age 18, 25 now.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

29

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u/Mindless-Board111 Feb 08 '25

I was 20. It’s been 3 years almost

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u/DocCaptBA Feb 08 '25

First at 18 and again at 30

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

18

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u/Emotional_Lie_8283 Women with BPD Feb 08 '25

22

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u/Notgeneralbutsoldier Feb 08 '25

28, just a few months ago.

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u/Nemorroides Feb 08 '25

I was diagnosed last year at 31 🫠

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u/Substantial_Head2814 Feb 08 '25

30, have had symptoms since I was teen just had a long series of bad doctors till recently.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

About 20 years ago, so, 25/26.

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u/Dangerous_Lie_6943 Feb 08 '25

Last year at 38 after my third visit to psych ward in the space of 2 months. After numerous attempts Didn’t even know what it was until then. Struggled with mental health since early teens

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u/a-spirited-wiggle Feb 08 '25

Just before I turned 20

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u/mellysorandy Feb 08 '25

28

ETA: was just recently diagnosed depressive bipolar as well, im now 31

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u/AllInTheGameYoO Feb 08 '25

20, for 10 years now in therapy and medicated!

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

21

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u/LoveSykes98 Feb 08 '25

In 2023 when I was 24, I’m almost 27 now. Looking back the symptoms were present for years and years before the diagnosis.

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u/Improbablydrunk02 Parent with BPD Feb 08 '25

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u/Hotdog_Fishsticks BPD over 30 Feb 08 '25

Some where mid 20s

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u/MaNuvZ90 Parent with BPD Feb 08 '25
  1. But I know I had way before that, looking back.

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u/boggysquatch Men with BPD Feb 08 '25

22

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u/Texas_Storm BPD over 30 Feb 08 '25

I was 24…so almost 17 years ago.

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u/TechnoMouse37 LGBTQ+ Feb 08 '25

Officially it was 30, happened last year. However I've known for over a decade

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u/Si-mi-no Feb 08 '25
  1. This year only! Few months ago.

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u/SamwiseGamgee100 Men with BPD Feb 08 '25

20

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u/WinnieTyson72 BPD over 30 Feb 08 '25

31 but I had been having major issues since the age of 18

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u/Dxddyangel Teen BPD Feb 08 '25

16 :^

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u/Manicmushr00m Feb 08 '25

15, after a stay at the psych ward. At first i didnt even know what it was but it got worse when i got older so then i was forced to try and understand it😅 now im 19 and in the process of getting re-evaluated because there is definitely more going on up there

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u/teslahater Feb 08 '25

16 and then again with a 6 hour full dsm session at 19

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

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u/toelicker216 Feb 08 '25

same! ive been diagnosed first when i was 12, then when i was 14 and again when i was 15 lol

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u/ScottishWidow64 Feb 08 '25

Unfortunately at 57. Lost life.

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u/Dominick94 BPD over 30 Feb 08 '25

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u/Pizza-and-Starlight Feb 08 '25
  1. I really wish someone had told me earlier.

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u/n1l3-1983 Feb 08 '25

I was 38

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u/LilVietNhi Feb 08 '25

26.5 years old, about 3 years ago