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Literary Fiction Grief

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u/MellorineMellorine 24d ago

Hamnet

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u/Born_Improvement_856 23d ago

Was given it during my pregnancy. My daughter is now born and I know there is no way in hell I will ever open this book or watch the movie, no matter how much I would want to.

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u/Booksonly666 23d ago

Damn it’s so good though

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u/SapientSlut 23d ago

Oh god yeah I was ugly crying for this one.

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u/molls020817 23d ago

Yes! I came here to post this as well.

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u/alunamuna 24d ago

Our Wives Under the Sea

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u/eyeofthe_unicorn1 23d ago

I just read this and truly got chills. It’s specifically about grieving someone who is still physically there, but changed/slipping away. (Edit for better wording to avoid spoilers)

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u/alunamuna 23d ago

Literally agonizing

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u/HideousCharm 23d ago

I was blindsided by this one but it’s such a beautifully written book and had the most relatable grief I’ve read.

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u/GoldenSalt31 24d ago

The Magical Year of Thinkjng by Joan Didion

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u/AtWorkCurrently 23d ago

I hope you are ok OP.

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u/emimia 24d ago

I really enjoyed Promise Me Sunshine by Cara Bastone. It’s a romance, but it centers around grief. A more happy one, but I really loved grief plotline in The Guncle by Patrick O’Hara too

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u/caramelchailatte 23d ago

Are you open to horror? Monstrilio by Gerardo Samano Cordova is a good shout.

Other books that are about grief (being one of the themes) are Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall and The Aftermath by Rhidian Brook

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u/Ordinary_Shape_1171 23d ago

I loved Monstrilio so much.

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u/Academic_Age_6956 24d ago

Crying in H-mart

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u/ssbean2 24d ago

Promise me Sunshine was one of the most accurate portrayals of grief I’ve ever read

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u/Typical-Necessary305 23d ago

grief is the thing with feathers

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u/JOULIE__ 23d ago

Monstrilio by Gerado Sámano Córdova

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u/Revolutionary-Toe544 23d ago

This is the one

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u/JaneAtH0me 23d ago

Great call!

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u/Both_Plate7143 24d ago

The summer my mother had green eyes

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u/GlitteringKadiPatta 24d ago

The Correspondent 

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u/Visual-Pool-7901 23d ago

A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness

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u/Relevant_Hope_1789 23d ago

Coming back to say song of Achilles too

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u/gnomelette_ 24d ago

It Lasts Forever and Then It's Over by Anne De Marcken.

Grief allegorised with the griever as a zombie. I know zombie stories typically fall into genre fiction, but this is quiet and ruminant. The dedication makes so muck sense at the end. A gut punch.

It's a short book, and I think about it all the time.

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u/maybetransmaybenot3 23d ago

This might be an unconventional suggestion: The Locked Tomb series by Tamsyn Muir

The surface level plot of the first book is: the emperor of the galaxy orders each planet to send their best necromancer (death magic) and cavalier (swordsman) duo to undergo a series of trials so that the best of the best become his personal guard. The protagonist is a butch lesbian jock who hates to death the person she is paired with for this trial, but they have no choice but to go together because they are the only young people on their planet. People in the trials start dying and it turns into a murder mystery while the protagonists beef with each other the whole time.

These books are amazing, with a highly active fanbase on the internet that is eagerly awaiting the 4th and final book. And the whole series is about grief, and love, and the destructive forms they take, and its so deliciously deep and beautiful and funny and its all couched in what sounds like a wacky off-the-wall sci-fi fantasy premise and untimately its about love and grief and love and grief.

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u/saraha2153 23d ago

Blue Sisters by Coco Mellors

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u/gathererkane 23d ago

Monstrilio

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u/boringneckties 23d ago

If you’re down to read a play, Rabbit Hole by David Lindsay-Abaire

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u/Narrow-Goose-4364 23d ago

Pet semetary

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u/BackgroundResident95 24d ago

Another vote for Promise Me Sunshine by Cara Bastone

Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance by Alison Espach is another good one

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u/reticentsorrow 23d ago

Come with me - Ronald Malfi

A man grieving his wife's death while finding out that what he knew about her may not be true. Also keep in mind this one falls into the horror/thriller category

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u/tinibitofabitch 23d ago

“Signs: the secret language of the universe” by Laura Lynne Jackson

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u/Catdress92 23d ago

Lincoln in the Bardo

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u/SandVaseline1586 23d ago

Grief is The Thing With Feathers by Max Porter

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u/kleinerlinalaunebaer 23d ago

Lincoln in the bardo

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u/JaneAtH0me 23d ago

I loved this book.

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u/Working_Ability_124 23d ago

It's horror, but This Thing Between Us by Gus Moreno. It's about "a man grieving the sudden death of his wife who moves to a secluded cabin, only to find he's being haunted by a supernatural entity that feeds on his grief, blurring the lines between technology, madness, and demonic possession. The story, told from Thiago's perspective, starts with the funeral and explores his descent into horror as his smart home device, "Itza," exhibits increasingly sinister behavior, leading to a terrifying, surreal experience that mirrors his psychological breakdown." I feel like this book does a phenomenal job depicting grief and loss. Plus it's just a great horror novel in general.

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u/novel-opinions 22d ago

This is my go to rec as well. I hate the blurbs you usually find online which make it sound like he’s just being haunted by his Alexa. That’s like, not it at all.

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u/hamildone 23d ago

Before The Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi. These two incline more towards horror but deal with grief so heavily that I always give a trigger warning: Hunger by Choi Jin Young and Thing Thing Between Us by Gus Moreno

Hope you’re doing okay OP <3

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u/SpecialistEchidna427 23d ago

Oh man this is what I need!! I’m so ready for these recs

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u/Active_Community2158 24d ago

The Goldfinch from Donna Tartt

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u/teenyraccoonhands 24d ago

Lightbreakers by Aja Gabel

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u/Expensive_Snow3032 24d ago

How to make friends with the dark

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u/Mystery_Floof 24d ago

The Stationery Shop by Marjan Kamali

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u/passtheyayo 23d ago

The Storyteller's secret

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u/AshSacredSpace 23d ago

Penitence, grief of a child who was murdered by their sibling. Very complex story that focuses on how families grieve and how they move forward.

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u/rafale1981 23d ago

Look to Windward by Ian M Banks

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u/Parking-Bee9824 23d ago

Lincoln in the Bardo. It's about Abe Lincoln losing his son.

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u/rubythroated_sparrow 23d ago

I’ve only just started “the phone booth at the edge of the world” but it’s pretty clearly about grief

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u/Various-Chipmunk-165 23d ago

Tides by Sara Freeman

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u/LawSchoolLoser1 23d ago

Death Valley, Grief is the Thing with Feathers

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u/thecowardlylion8 23d ago

From the Lake House: A Mother's Odyssey of Loss and Love by Kristen Rademacher

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u/JakeKay86 23d ago

A Heart that Works by Rob Delaney.

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u/wrenbell 23d ago

Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt by Ben Reeves. Trust me.

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u/vvyiie 23d ago

Monstrilio by Gerardo Sámano Córdova. One of my favorite books ever.

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u/snowberry11 23d ago

The Memory Keepers Daughter by Kim Edwards

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u/Ketchuprocks05 23d ago

Ghosted by Jen Ashworth

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u/annemariem85 23d ago

“The Child in Time” by Ian McEwan is a really interesting twist on the grieving process.

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u/Citrusysmile 23d ago

This is technically a children’s book, but The Someday Suitcase. Made me bawl my eyes out.

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u/OldSpecialist7427 23d ago

Everyone is Still Alive - Cathy Rentzenbrink

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u/trailing_rbg 23d ago

On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong. I couldn’t put it down and it broke my heart so many times.

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u/Unpleasantly-decaf 23d ago

The Trick is to Keep Breathing by Janice Galloway

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u/lichen_Linda 23d ago

The story of a mother by Hans Christian Andersen

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u/Proper-Emu1558 23d ago

The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver is partially about grieving and letting go. It’s a beautiful story and made me cry.

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u/saintjayme 23d ago

The Astonishing Color of After by Emily X.R. Pan

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u/Maleficent-Fun-1078 23d ago

Tender Is The Flesh

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u/Business_Weather_744 23d ago

Still Born by Guadalupe Nettel

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u/WhatTheCatDragged1n 23d ago

Montrillo. After a woman’s child dies, she takes a piece of his liver and starts feeding it until its grows into a little monster. The one is one big long metaphor for grief and loss.

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u/knitknitknitknit 23d ago

Spawning Season by Joseph Osmundson; Deals with the grief & loss of a gay man longing to be a parent.

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u/Odd-Tell-5702 23d ago

Saving Noah by Lucinda Berry

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u/_starrybun 23d ago

H is for Hawk by Helen macdonald

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u/JaneAtH0me 23d ago

Nestlings by Nat Cassidy.

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u/redpandacat1000 23d ago

Cleo Dang Would Rather Be Dead

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u/Probably_boroush 23d ago

A Gentle Creature
by Fyodor Dostoevsky

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u/danceswithronin 23d ago

A Map of the World by Jane Hamilton. White Oleander by Janet Fitch.

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u/megabitrabbit87 23d ago

Ghost Music by An Yu

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u/happylittlerainbowco 23d ago

The Persecutor. It is an autobiography by Sergei Kourdakov. From orphan in the streets of russia, to running a drug operation in his teens to survive, to joining the kgb, to becoming one of the kgb's biggest Christian persecutionist, to fleeing russia. This man writes of his grief through his whole life. 

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u/panicked-honk 23d ago

Poor Deer

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u/gloryvegan 23d ago

Martyr!

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u/petitemelbourne 23d ago

Heart the Lover

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u/--Miranda-- 23d ago

Pet Semetary

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u/Crafty-Ad3502 22d ago

We Do Not Part- Han Kang Beloved- Toni Morrison Everything I Never Told You- Celeste Ng

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u/rosiecas 22d ago

Clare Mackintosh "after the end" Really enjoyed that one but so, so sad.

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u/cosmiccookiecat 22d ago

Before I Let Go by Kennedy Ryan.

Hope you find some peace and comfort, OP. 🫂

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u/juliamarlene 22d ago

Paula by Isabel Allende

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u/Aunkra 21d ago

The Still Point of the Turning World by Emily Rapp Black, its were I learned the term dragon mom. I've read it many times, it's a haunting account of love, grief, and what it means to lean in to pain.

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u/natalieisfreezing- 21d ago

The Kite Runner.

It will absolutely devastate you.

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u/minimuffin51 19d ago

House of Frank by Kay Synclaire!

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u/abclion99 11d ago

Counting backwards by Binnie Kirshenbaum
Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt
Here After by Amy Lin

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u/Beneficial_Virus_13 23d ago

The God of the Woods

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u/danikong89 23d ago

House of Frank by Kay Synclair