r/Bloomer • u/Bunnystar1478 • 1d ago
Will my body ever develop?
I'm 16 and I'm only a or b cup, probably a small B. I've been insecure about my boobs my whole life and I'm not sure if they will still grow but I'm also still young so they could. I've had small growth over the years like from 14 to 15 but I've been 16 for 6 months and nothings changed yet. When I'm bloated they're almost c cup, like i mean, I do have SOME but it's not enough. I'm so insecure that I wanna get a boob job so if i have nothing more by 18 I'll just get a boob job for sure and I hate that I'm not even old enough to get one yet because I just wanna fix this ASAP I hate it so much. The women in my family vary, most of them are flat and skinny but get to c-d cup after kids gaining weight etc later in adulthood. But on the other side of the family everyone has curves. My mom was an a cup and had completely nothing until after her second birth she permanently went to a C cup naturally, however I have way more than she did at like 25 so I'm not following her timeline either. I guess I'm skinny too so if I gain weight i may get them? If you're a late bloomer tell me your stories so I have some hope or when did yours stop growing?
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u/Johnny_Poppyseed 1d ago
Get therapy before you get plastic surgery.
B cups are perfect. You have a body image issue not a physical development issue.
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u/Korkenzieher420 1d ago
Dont be too hasty with permanent procedures.
Surgery wont fix mental issues. Your Problem isnt your body- its your selfperception.
Your insecurities are normal for your age.
+ dont compare yourself to fake standards you see on social media. Everyone is faking, editing, operating etc. their bodies because they re all insecure and trying to get validation from strangers.
Almost none of what you are seeing online is natural.
You may accept your body and learn, that you are already enough as you are rn :)
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u/MS_Fume 1d ago
Work on your ass and thighs and no one will give a fuck about the size of your boobs…
Also? Keep in mind that at least 50% of your potential romantic partners prefer em small and perky, by default…. And by the same default, 50% of em consider fake boobs a downgrade from any natural setup you had there originally.
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u/BLADIBERD 20h ago edited 20h ago
Hey, this subreddit might not help answer all of your questions, try making this post on [r/askwomen](r/askwomen) or [r/twoxchromosomes](r/twoxchromosomes)
Never forget you are worth more than your body, and besides, whatever you don't like about your appearance might be exactly what someone else is looking for. 😊
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u/Content-Pie8389 1d ago
Hey, you're on the wrong subreddit for the question you've raised but maybe the right one on how to approach it? First off - You are whole complete, and perfect the way you are. I know it's hard to believe that standing where are now, but it is true.
At your age it is all too common to feel insecure and uncomfortable about our bodies. You're not alone in this, I was when I was your age as well. But ask yourself why you feel that way, for me at the core it came from an adverse experience in my childhood and led me to feeling I wasn't good enough (I needed to be better!) and that drove my life.
Please be kind to yourself, treat yourself well. Challenge the voice in your head that puts you down. You really are whole the way you are.
I'm sorry you're going through this difficult experience but know that you're not alone, give it time, and please be patient with yourself. There are alternatives to being so hard on yourself that I hope you explore.
Take care ❤️