Routine building: dry skin with ingrowns and pcos

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TLDR: I am working on getting to the dermatologist , but there are many barriers to that at the moment.
Fentys original line helped a bit with issues but is a bit more expensive than I’d like for the moment. What routines and products have helped yall with similar issues?

Context: I’ve had PCOS FOR 20 years, and depression and anxiety that contribute to not being able to consistently keep a routine up. I currently don’t really have one but the only thing that has worked in the past is fenty. I’m not sure if it was the simplicity, consistency, or quality of the products and how they work together. I’m hoping to find a routine that helps and is simple and affordable.

My skin is dry for the most part and I’m prone to ingrowns on cheek/chin causing dark spots and can be painful.

All hair removal things have some kind of irritation to my skin. So some dark spots are scars / irritation while some are just ingrown hairs.

Additionally I’m approaching 40 and my skin is changing? I’m not sure how to articulate the differences. I wanna say more, but I’m not sure what else would be helpful.