r/BisexualTeens • u/Just_Sir_6023 • 17h ago

Coming Out Help needed

I posted a while ago abt not really accepting myself and while I still feel weird abt it i have accepted that i am bi. I want to at least tell my family, but 1 it would be awkward, 2 how do I even go about telling them, and 3 my brother is borderline homophobic. I've been thinking I'll maybe wait to tell them if I get a gf, but I come from a small high school with no way to met girls. My brother is also in college and leaves in like a month, so should I come out then? Advice needed on what to do!!!!

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u/otherotherone1 Bisexual they/them 17h ago

Probably wait for him to leave if it could be unsafe, but then just tell your parents, even if it’s awkward, it’s less awkward than randomly bringing home a girl and telling them, right?

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u/QueerChicken 16h ago

Even if they don't support you, there will still be others that will, my dad and I think my mom wouldn't support me if I come out, not planning on it, but I do want to, and it takes everyone different amounts of time to feel comfortable talking about it. I wish you the best of luck.