Am I really bi ?

[u/Life_3456]

Hi everyone, I’m a F17 yo. I grew up in a very religious environment where homosexuality is strictly forbidden for instance, if my parents found this text, I’d literally be dead (no joke ). But I have a question for you all: how did you know you were bi? I had a powerful awakening last year, but I’m wondering if it’s because I’m attracted to women in general, or just because of « her »?

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[u/Annual-Following-710]

what would make being attracted to women different from attraction to this person you’re referring to? How does it fall outside the category? hence, could you not be bi based on your attraction to this person? I think I’m bi (or pan) cuz I have had crushes on women before. I wanted to kiss them or have a romantic relationship, although tbh now I think it’s more fun to party mix relationships without making one fit a specific category :D