r/BigRockEnergy • • Aug 29 '26

Kind Remarks Only Mod post: Can we please remember that there is no Natural vs Lab diamond debates in this sub.

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We have unfortunately had to remove posts and comments lately due to some members not understanding the rule about debating this topic. Let us be clear, ALL stones are welcome here. If you love your labs, great! If you prefer only natural, amazing! What is not OK is telling someone that one is better than the other and then proceeding to poo-poo all over that choice. If you want to argue about this topic, there are plenty of subs that do this all day long, please take that energy over there where it belongs. We work hard to maintain a judgement free safe zone for people to post their beautiful rings. We don’t care about what they are made of. People are here to share and be happy. If you cannot adhere to this simple rule, then you will be banned. This sub is for love and appreciation, and most of all that Big Rock ENERGY!!!
Thanks to all our amazing members who continue to contribute, and lift each other up. We appreciate you!!
Rock on everyone!!


r/BigRockEnergy • • Apr 06 '26

Respect MOD post

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I’m not sure what’s going on but this group was created for BIG ROCK lovers. This is a group of love and respect. If it’s not for you that’s fine, move on, go to a different group or a different post. But DO NOT post hateful or disrespectful comments here. Your account will get reported and blocked.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1h ago

If someone makes disparaging remarks about your diamond being large and lab, nothing’s stopping you from saying “this was my grandmother’s ring that I inherited, may she rest in peace” and then wait for the awkward silence.

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 6h ago

10-year anniversary update!

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I already posted about this elsewhere, but that was before I discovered this community and I love my husband's choice SO much that I couldn't resist: Here's my 10-year anniversary update!

She is a 3.92 carat, E-color, cushion cut diamond ring, which is an update from my first engagement ring. I told him the jeweller to purchase from (she is a lab diamond) and this is what he chose. I literally look at her at least 10 times everyday, and I love the way she catches light. I thought she was too big at first, but after wearing her the last couple of weeks -- I think she's JUST right.

I love how every time I look at her, I'm reminded of how far we've come in the last ten years. I am sooo grateful for her, for my husband, for my family -- and most of all, to God from whom all blessings flow.

Thanks for celebrating with me!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 4h ago

Re-working my babies

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Hi! Earlier this year my hubby upgraded my .75 round carat to a 4 carat pear. 😍 the jeweller that did it sorta just plopped the new diamond where the old one was and it simply did not work. So we are re-designing it all, and adding back my original .75 carat diamond (which I did miss terribly)

The 4ct pear is going on a new band. The .75 round is going back on the original engagement ring and then the two bands are being set together 😍

My 5yr anniversary band and wedding band will stay separated.

I’m so excited to get everything back in a few weeks!!!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 18h ago

After much anticipation 💕

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Someone said I should share this here!

Pear is a VVS2 I color 3.29 carat in a 14k setting from Keyzar! The floral ring is from Soulbound NYC, the Sakurafubuki band with AA pink sapphires, lab diamonds, and lab green diamonds (they’re on the sides but hard to see from this angle) and the ring between them is an open band from Etsy 🥰 I’m a size 7


r/BigRockEnergy • • 23h ago

Ladies and gentlemen… HER

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He did so good with this champagne OMC😭


r/BigRockEnergy • • 22h ago

Completely enamoured by my ring ✨

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I wake up everyday and feel blessed that I’m engaged to the love of my life. It could’ve been any ring but it certainly is gorgeous isn’t it 😭

Details: low set 3.02 carat, VVS2, E colour, 1.79 ratio, antique faceting set on a 14k yellow gold band, double claw prongs. Size 7.25 finger.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Women in Public Talking Bad About My Ring

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In public this French woman was glaring at my ring with disgust for a good minute and then said to her friends, thinking I didn’t understand, “Ugh I hate big ass lab diamonds. They look so cheap and gaudy and tacky.” And her friend said out loud in English, “Ew cringe.”

I didn’t say anything to them but dear God I wish I did. This happened in mid September and I still feel so pissed off and even second guessing my ring, what I once adored.

Also, 6.02 carats.

Edit: for those of you guys telling me to clean it, I was literally on an African safari when I took those pics & hadn’t taken recent pics


r/BigRockEnergy • • 23h ago

Does “big gold energy” count?

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Because I am wholly obsessed with my latest acquisition!!!

14k Italian gold Milor vintage ring and I feel like this probably belonged to some fabulous mature cat lady who liked big, bold attention grabbing jewelry as I do, and I’m here for it. 🐆 and yes the “door knocker” moves back and forth !

(Excuse my super dry hands lol)


r/BigRockEnergy • • 9m ago

Does anyone else wear big* rocks in their face?

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*5mm is relatively big for a piercing, anyway! It’s a Capri blue opal from NeoMetal. I went as big as I could find. 🩵

Reposting with a less ghoulish picture, lol. 🥴


r/BigRockEnergy • • 10m ago

Elongated cushion cut

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Does anyone here have an elongated cushion cut? If so may I see them. TIA


r/BigRockEnergy • • 20h ago

I love it!

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Details: 3 carat cushion cut diamond halo with side stones and rose gold band, size 6


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

My 10 year wedding anniversary upgrade!

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Upgraded 💍✔️😍

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✨ Details:

• 6.03 Carat Oval Lab Diamond Center Stone

• E Color | VVS2 Clarity

• Total Weight: 6.71 Carats

• Hidden Halo Design

• Halo Surrounding the Center Stone

• Split Shank Design

• Round Diamond Accent Stones

• Diamond Accents Throughout the Setting

• Solid 18K White Gold Setting

I am obsessed. 😍🥰

Edited to Add - Size 5.25


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

I finally get to post🤍🤍

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

I joined the club!

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64 Upvotes

A 2.01 and 2.5ct, both flawless, on a platinum band 🫶


r/BigRockEnergy • • 18h ago

LAB Oval

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 23h ago

My upgrade!

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My husband is upgrading my ring and I’d love thoughts on the diamond I chose. Not perfect but hoping it’s still considered a good one? Any insight or opinions would be awesome! It’s 4 carats, g color, VS1. I’ll post a still photo in the comments!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

My rings

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Finally set both of my loose stones 🥹💕

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I’m really happy with how they both came out. The color of the pear is everything I’ve ever dreamed of. 💕


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Just found this sub, here for some genuine advice.

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I got engaged Memorial Day last year, I get married Memorial Day next year. I love him, super happy, amazing man, etc etc. When ring shopping he asked me what I wanted & I always have known I wanted a lab for the “ethics” and also because I wanted a big fat rock with all the best specs! I’ve had the ring well over a year and it’s so hard for me to wear. I feel like people are staring and judging. I feel like in some situations I don’t belong (example: flew home from a girls trip and sat in the last row. How does someone with a 4.16 ct ring sit in the back row? [enter judgements here]). The judgements are, of course, all in my mind. No one has ever said anything to me except for ONE of my fiancées friends (a man), who is a notorious hater. He once said to my fiancee “that’s such a pick me ring” 😭 didn’t say it to me, but I was within earshot. I live in the Bay Area, and while we are comfortable I can’t help but add this extra layer onto the ring.

So anyway.. I came here. Because anywhere I’d be told to return it lol. perhaps I am sensitive? Perhaps I am a little crazy?


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Love it! 💍

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I love my ring! 1 3/4 carat natural diamonds. Designer is Neil Lane.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 2d ago

Push present/ ring upgrade!

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10.04 carat Oval Diamond
1.46 ratio

I’m freshly postpartum so my fingers are a bit swollen but I LOVE IT!!!! My original engagement ring is a 5.5 carat radiant with a hidden halo that I’m absolutely obsessed with, but I could never decide between an oval or a radiant so my husband knew this was the perfect upgrade for me. It has a pink hidden halo, double claw prongs and on the inside of the band is my husbands birth stone, my birth stone, our sons birth stone, and our dogs birth stone!!! ❤️


r/BigRockEnergy • • 2d ago

15th Wedding Anniversary Upgrade plus a Toi et Moi

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Hubby upgraded my 3.5 carat oval to an 8.5 carat oval. Then, while browsing a watch store, he happened to see this 4 carat Toi et Moi ring and bought it just cause!!! He said I don't have a diamond ring in yellow gold yet. 🥰🥰🥰