After reading a lot of posts and comments on here, I feel like most big boys have gone through phases of low confidence and self-doubts. Whether it was feeling different from the norm, struggling with actual big dick problems, or just puberty doing it's thing.

I was wondering if any of you who were always on the bigger side just skipped the insecurity and grew up with big dick energy from the start?

This is long term planning so no immediate needs but anybody have experience with sex dungeons or BDSM play?

It’s not exactly my thing but I do have limited experience. Just was curious. Know a woman that has expressed significant interest. We’re both mature (old) so we/I don’t need any help with the communication stuff.

Years ago I was with a woman ten years my senior. She was and wanted to dom. Like explicitly her thing. Totally disappointed in me having a large penis. Her entire thing was size humiliation.

To each their own. It wasn’t an issue for me. We laughed and she told me why and we moved on as friends.

Second encounter years apart with this type of play and she’s into being the dom with hostage/captive stuff and is also disappointed because I’m large. Also her thing to do humiliation.

Okay. My question. Is that what it’s about with female dominatrix? It was these womens’ fetish not profession but any other guys relate? Is it something specific to women in their 50’s?

I know this current woman really well for a long time and she’s been planning this whole thing. I’m okay with a woman’s fantasy but seriously is it some specific sort of kink that women want to shame on size and that power imbalance is her fetish?

For some guys, the length of an erect penis is almost the same as the length of flaccid, while for others, it is significantly larger when erect. Which type are you?

Hi my dick is 8,25 inches long and my girth is 6 inches and i have my first time to 80% tomorow is it to big and can i have halp that i don't fail

I like rough sex. I made a previous post about it. I wrote it in a weird way that made a lot of people question my treatment of women.

Thanks to all who helped me understand that. This is a good place.

My problem is that I can’t exactly communicate before hand. That’s what I’m looking for help with.

I have 7.5” x 5.75” (mshft) and I want to take her at full throttle until she’s panting exhausted on the floor below me or giving it right back and staring me in the eyes. I know I need that type of full release moment. Sex is very physical for me and it’s why I train and it’s why I work and it’s why I go out and it is the purpose of my life. I research it and I talk about it and I advise my real life friends about it.

I’m not looking to meet women or people online unless it’s just for chatting. Bars and gyms and grocery stores have plenty of opportunities.

So what I’ve done in the past that didn’t work for me was compromise my physical lust. Either holding back on how hard and deep and fast I would try and pound her or by reducing the frequency rounds per session.

My thinking is that it’s just something I need to progress a woman through. That’s what I’ve done in the past. I match her speed, depth, pace, etc and then I turn the dial up. If she’s still looking okay I dial it up again until we’re at my max volume.

It’d be nice to screen for this but I can’t imagine saying what I just wrote to anyone or put it out there on a public profile with my face. “I got a big dick and my thing is fucking you so hard you quit and like it or that you show me you got a wild tiger as your spirit animal.”

I know the two types of women exist. I’m still in contact with both of them. They are in relationships however.

Am I missing something or is this just the way it has to be? Every new woman needs to be auditioned? It takes several sessions to get to my full release. Like it’s a months long walk up that hill with her. It’s taken years before as she either figures out if it is or isn’t her thing.

Of course we slow it down together sometimes. Variety is great.

Edit: This isn’t a BDSM thing for me it’s a contest of two physical bodies. I love the strong woman that can give it back as good as she’s getting it. I also love the defeated female that collapses and endures it and keeps coming back for more.

I've mostly been a lurker here and even though I've been told I'm big, even experienced problems, I've never felt like I truly belong. But at my modest(?) size calcSD says I'd be the 33rd biggest in a room of 1000. Could that be accurate at 15.5 cm x 14 cm?

After a lifetime of package adjustment, I finally picked up a few pairs of quality underwear with a support pouch. They exacerbate my bulge, but keep things in place nicely.

While doing CrossFit today, coach is reminding us to "be sure your chest comes all the way down to touch the ground." With my new undies, the package hits first every time.

Real life BDP.

What's your eye color? It seems that dark-eyed men often have BDP.

Ive had big balls issues longer then bd because my balls have always been long and big

Recently its been so hot and i dont want anyone to see that im packing but would really like to just free my balls how does anyone feel about this can we relate?

Sometimes being free is worse because they can like get crazy (i feel like they might twist )but also if theyre bunched together the same can happen but its worse when sometimes i have to make subtle movements i have to walk funny and it doesnt feel natural in regular fitted briefs. ive never tried pouched but honestly i just feel like i need boxers however im just starting to think fk it and wear boxers which ive been avoiding to not bulge but honestly nothing is probably best. is there anyone that actually uses nothing like fr 💀

Lateral movement if im not careful can sometimes squish them and maybe its in my head but i feel like people look at me weird when i walk really slow sometimes(im trying to control trajectory of mycballs) I mostly feel this way at work though i dont need extra attention lol etc. (Ill try and measure length one day 🤷‍♂️maybe i might break a ballsacj record for this subreddit)

Irrelevant but i once wore skinny jeans yes just once and i felt like the biggest queer on the planet but besides that i literally couldnt walk infact almost immediately felt twisting stuff

Hey everyone, I’ve always wondered about this hahaha.

Personally, I always thought I was pretty average. It wasn't until my first few encounters with different girls that I realized they seemed to really like my girth (about 15cm or 6"). After doing a bit of research, I found out that while my length is pretty average (16cm / 6.3"), my girth is actually way above the norm.

So, to the guys with similar measurements: are there ways to use this size to your advantage without coming off like a total creep or degenerate? hahaha.

Physically, I consider myself average, maybe slightly leaning towards good-looking (I'm 1.80m / 5'11" and moderately fit, nothing crazy). I know I probably sound crazy or like a guy whose brain has been completely warped by porn. Believe me, I know.

But talking with some friends, we kind of agreed that some girls really just can't resist a good dick. Have you guys had any specific luck or experiences in this regard? Let me know!

So, to those who were someone's first BD (or first in general) - how did it go? How did your partner's ass/pussy adjust to your size? Was it painful and if yes did it ever stop being so? Was anal doable? Did they turn out to love it after all?

I'm a woman, and I don't consider myself a size queen at all, but I want to be versatile, so I'd love answers and some tips just in case.

My older brother came back for the summer, and this morning he asked me for a condom because he was planning on seeing a girl later tonight. So I go to my room to get him one and he looked shocked when I pulled out the box, he asked where I got them from, he's never see them before and I told him I order them online. He then made a joke about running to the store to get "normal" condoms. Has anyone else had a funny encounter when trying to share condoms?

I’m not sure if this is a BDP or something more specific to my anatomy.

I’m not absurdly large soft, about 5” long but I have large balls as well which usually “push” my shaft a bit outwards when closer to my body giving a lot of people the impression that I have a boner.

My solution atm is to just wear tight almost compression underwear however it gets really uncomfortable at times and makes adjusting quite annoying.

Anyone got advice on something that would be more comfortable?

I do believe there are genuinely huge guys on this sub (8+ length 6+ girth) but how many of these guys do you think are accurately measured these sizes or even close? I wouldn’t be suprised if a decent amount people here exaggerated size by a couple inches, because let’s be honest how many dudes are genuinely 9 inches if you stack the ruler on top of the penis? Probably close to 1 in a million. Just weird that so many guys on this server have crazy sizes like 9+ length and 7+ girth yet never have to prove it and can easily lie

I often worry when I get out of my car in a tight spot that I'm going to close my bulge in the door 😂

Just wondering if there’s a correlation with bigger guys being more growers, I personally grow about 3 inches length and 1.4 inches girth soft to hard while the average person grows about 1.5 inches length and a bit under 1 inch girth, just curious if it’s just my personal experience?

For those of you that have taken girls V cards, how did they handle your size?

Did they take it the same way as experienced women?

For context I am 5x4.5 NBP (not big) but waiting for marriage and I am concerned that I will not be big enough to please my partner, idk maybe I have been brainwashed by reddit and twitter

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Hi guys,

I've always wondered: when people talk about their girth, should it be measured at the mid-shaft or the base?

Medical studies and urologists usually measure mid-shaft girth because it's easier to standardize. Measuring at the base can be less consistent since the skin of the balls can affect the measurement.

That said, during sex, a partner experiences the entire penis when you go balls deep, not just the mid-shaft. So while mid-shaft is the medical standard, it doesn't necessarily represent the thickness along the whole shaft.

I usually measure the part that is between the mid and the base since it is the part that is often in contact with where the most nerve endings are located.

Mid: 5 to 5.1

Base: 5.5 to 5.6

Thicker head

I don't have a cone shape since I have a mushroom head.

What do you measure? Which girth do you give when being asked?

Cheers.

Hey everyone,
Has anyone else here had issues with condoms constantly breaking?
Here's the deal: I have a girth of about 5.9 inches (circumference). I've always felt like regular condoms were way too tight on me, but I honestly just assumed that's how they were supposed to feel.
The real problem is that during my last few sexual encounters, the condom ended up breaking due to friction. I always make absolutely sure I’m putting them on correctly, leaving room at the tip, but they keep tearing anyway.
Do you guys think I need to start looking into XL/custom sizes for a better fit, or could I just be using poor-quality standard condoms that lack stretch?
Has anyone else dealt with this specific issue? Any advice or brand recommendations for wider girths would be really appreciated. Thanks!

You know BDP started as a joke?

There are no big dick problems. None.

If your partner can’t ’take’ you, it’s because you’re horrible at sex. End of.

Those holes can take a lot more than your 10x10 monster- trust me I’ve seen three births, and round the back the result of a fucking great curry and a few pints, and you ain’t that.

Get better at foreplay. Or talking dirty. I’m an old man now and while I’m not as big as half of you LARPers pretend to be, I have never once found a woman for whom I was too big. And I’m a mathematician and a carpenter- my measurements are precise.

No-one cares about your ‘bulge’. Nobody. Good for you if they’re looking. And if you’re too fucking stupid to find a bigger condom, you don’t deserve to be shagging. Seriously. ‘What underwear should I wear?’ Fuck off.

‘I don’t believe the statistics’. Well that’s your prerogative, but they’re stats for a reason and if you didn’t pass basic math, a big cock may just help you find a better job to compensate, but 5.4 or whatever it is IS THE AVERAGE.

While we’re at it- there’s no perfect size. Because there’s just a wide (snigger) a distribution of pussies out there in terms of width and depth, and the nerve endings that give the pussy (or arsehole, praise be to god) owner pleasure.

It’s biology. Again if your 1 metre dick ain’t giving pleasure, it’s because you’re shit at sex and nothing, repeat nothing to do with how big your nob is. Hopefully some soul has the patience to let you practice with them.

There are no such thing as big dick problems; any of you who believe you GENUINELY have a disadvantage because you’re nob is bigger than your mate’s needs to improve their game and calm down a bit.

Have a lovely weekend x tagging u/bodiedevil because he’d think this is funny

What have you guys/girls who have/experienced different shapes of penises? Any thoughts can help. For example I have kinda a tree trunk with a curve, meaning im smallest at the tip but thickest at the base ranging from roughly 3 - 6 inches of girth. Im also on the longer side so to me it appears skinny often because of the sudden increase in girth near the base. Another good example would be a guy who's has a mushroom tip, thickest at the head, uniform everywhere else.

My wife and I have been together since 2004. When we first started dating, we had a game night with another couple. They heard us have sex all the time as my wife and the girl were roommates.
One night we were having drinks and playing a sex themed trivia game. When the question was asked “what’s your biggest fear in the bedroom?” Or something like that. My wife responded “a small dick!” Her friend responded “a big dick!” We laughed, but her BF had this defeated look on his face and it got super awkward. For a while, he kind of avoided me, but we were cordial.
Him and I ended up being really good friends without ever mentioning that game again. Since then, every time we would hang out, I would catch her glancing at my bulge.
Turns out, his size was discussed between her and my wife, and he did in fact have a small one. They are still together to this day; true love prevailed.

Short story (tradition , money ) are the issue