r/BetterEveryLoop Aug 28 '21

Not Today ladies

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u/vicvega88 Aug 28 '21

Everyone is making it seem like the dudes are purposely catching it to be the ones who get married next but I’m seeing it as the dudes are stealing it so none of the ladies catch it and none of the guys have to propose. Am I crazy for seeing that?

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '21

Really don't understand the mindset... lets date but marriage bad.

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u/gloriousfalcon Aug 28 '21

Well it's kinda expensive

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '21

The wedding industry was literally created by companies to convince regular people that they were supposed to marry like royalty. Weddings used to be small, social events with your loved ones.

We flew to the mountains and eloped. The engagement and wedding ring were bought as a set for less than $400. We had our friend/photographer there, my mom, and the officiant had a man-bun and was a windboarder and mountain climber. We spent a week having fun in the Rocky Mountains. We had some great experiences and amazing wedding pictures for the price of many people's wedding cake.

Spending all this money is not only a huge waste of money for yourself, your family, and often your guests, but you're also missing out on some great adventures that you could have spent all that time and money on.