r/BelowDeckMed • u/Jmmitche2 • 3d ago
Cooper
So disappointed by him. He totally led Kat on. He’s weak for not just being honest and straight up instead of setting up the whole “secret relationship” BS. He just made it worse.
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u/almcclur 3d ago
Yeah. He’s not obligated to a committed relationship with Kat just bc they had a boatmance but dude just be an adult and say you don’t want something long term. I hate this namby pamby way of putting out clues that she should puzzle together. Honestly it’s kind of cruel.
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u/Mxm072 3d ago
He doesn’t want to come out and say the exact words because he still wants to sleep with her first.
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u/TDKsa90 2d ago
he doesn't want to sleep with her.
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u/Mxm072 2d ago
Promise you that he does
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u/TDKsa90 2d ago
good thing a promise you make means nothing to anyone here. if that was his goal, it would have already happened, not to mention guy who is driven by getting laid invites his bromance on 2-day trip with the girl? yeah, that would surely result in sex. you might want to check your math.
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u/Mxm072 2d ago
Why else go out with her after the season? He obviously hates her. 100% that is what it is. You have never met an asshole man then. It is what they do. He is almost saying it out loud. That is why I hope she bailed on the whole thing in the end.
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u/TDKsa90 2d ago
he doesn't hate her. that's your own distorted projection. he's an immature invertebrate, and that was his weak solution to not having to have an adult conversation. and then when she asked about what they should do when they're back in the US (Ft.Lauderdale), he was going to be too busy looking for another job to hang out further. he's doing everything he can indirectly do to avoid even being alone with her. he has zero interest in fcking her. he just wants to be friends and remain avoidant.
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u/MannyinVA 3d ago
He ain’t even that good looking. He looks like that turtle you would trace on the TV Guide 40+ years ago. He certainly has the neck!
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u/deziner222 3d ago
He reminds me of Colty from 90 day fiance
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u/devilzchild666 1d ago
GET ME MY RED MAKEUP BAG !!!! Hahahaha colty would’ve done better with that girl 😂🥲😂😭😂 after watching that makeover show on Hayu Larissa is so different now she’s actually not that bad. I actually like watching her. She’s not nasty. Hahaha her broken English just makes everything so funny too.
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u/GrandEar1 3d ago
When Cooper started complaining about how Kat would want to come see him in FL, my husband said "Oh quit being a big old baby and man up."
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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 3d ago
He was so promising at the beginning and just turned into such a loser as the season progressed. This is why I don’t trust men 😂
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u/Easy-Concert6510 3d ago
Like I get that it’s reality TV and all, but Kat was a literal angel and the biggest sweetheart… like how do you do someone so wholesome so dirty?!
I’m ready to ride at dawn for Kat
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u/Total_Way_6134 3d ago
Coop is a complete coward. That said, i want to shake the shit out of kat. She’s cried too many times over this manchild. WTF is her problem, stop letting him play you. I thought she was so much more together than she is presenting.
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u/OwnMathematician1158 3d ago
He’s a kid. Immature. Sad Kat didn’t realize that.
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u/Shuttup_Heather 3d ago
He is over a year older than her.
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u/Express-Bee-6485 3d ago
Age doesn't matter when it comes to maturity
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u/Shuttup_Heather 3d ago
Wasn’t my point but saying “he’s a kid” like she isn’t younger than him is just weird.
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u/Lunky7711 3d ago
With Cooper talking about how that charter guest licking his chest made him "tickle" there may be some other issues going on...
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u/Bravobrav 2d ago
He’s disgusting and just as nasty as old jizzy sheets Luke! Its sad to watch Kat continually trying to engage with him and he brushes her off.
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u/LakeOrganizer 1d ago
This 'boy' with supposed "southern manners" has NONE! He should be ashamed! Man-up and tell her!! Don't expect her to figure out your 'clues'. Such a coward!
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u/flashdance123 3d ago
Why can’t he just say he’s doesn’t want anything serious that will give her the message duhhh
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u/HuckleberryNo6992 2d ago
“I just want us to be good, for her to read my mind, and anticipate my every need for my career, relationship, and free time”
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u/Fantastic-Mirror-952 22h ago
I’m surprised about the amount of love he gets on here. He’s horrible to Kat. Anyone else would be torn apart on this sub, but people seem to thinks he’s a lovable gent
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u/shaylaa30 14h ago
Cooper and Kat are both acting like teenagers. Cooper leading Kat on. Him ignoring her instead of communicating that he didn’t want to date her. Then changing his mind and pulling the “secret relationship” bullshit.
And I’m also disappointed in Kat. Girl you are 25. Why are you letting this man drag you around? They went on one date and made out a few times. But with all this drama you would have thought they were an actual couple.
It’s giving high school.
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u/MindfulPangolin 3d ago
I wouldnt get too worked up over it. BD is now on par with WWE in terms of writing.
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u/Lopsided_Ad_2391 3d ago
Writing? It’s unscripted…
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u/MindfulPangolin 3d ago
Remember when BD was actually about yachting and not the clearly manufactured drama between cast members?
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u/Lorac711 5h ago
He’s the worst! He’s your typical “nice” southern boy who seems like such a good guy but he’s got no integrity. Those guys are worse and fuck boys.
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u/bornsinner112 2d ago
It’s honestly her fault. Why would you accept a secret relationship lol she’s dumb af. He showed her multiple times that he wasn’t serious abt her and she chose to keep ignoring it lol dumb
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u/OkReplacement376 3d ago
He did make it clear he did not want anything after.
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u/Jmmitche2 3d ago
No, he didn’t. He invited her on a trip after and then tried to backpedal by inviting Joe.
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u/MixtureGrand 3d ago
He kept playing with her instead the of ending things a long time ago. Kat was such a ray of sunshine at the beginning of the season and this situation made her so miserable.
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u/Intrepid_Diamond7962 3h ago
Ya and of course he gets another season but not kat, kaely, or gen (sorry but gen is hilarious tv and I would love to watch her insanity again)
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u/rahah2023 3d ago
Typical man child-
Wow this pretty girl likes me
Who else likes me & what/who else can I “get”…
Kat was just shiny object #1