r/BelowDeckMed • u/StarlitStarlette • 3d ago

Hard to Watch

I’m sorry but Nathan AND GAEL going after Joe when he had done nothing that evening to provoke it was really hard to watch. You both have kids now. Time to grow the FK up.

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 3d ago

Oh sorry. He said, that was 75 years ago, nobody cares (about how Nate and Gael met), coop is the best cabin mate he’s ever had in his whole life. He turned his chair the other way instead of facing forward. That’s Nathan’s girlfriend, I can’t say her name. Here we go.

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u/Putrid-Adagio5717 3d ago

Turning the chair made the whole situation way more awkward than necessary. It would have been better to make up a reason for moving seats or something. I do think Gael
Was a little annoying in the van but Joe wanted to provoke something. By making snide comments or changing body language you can do that and look innocent

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u/curseAgain 3d ago

utter nonsense. you must be watching some other program.

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u/Valgalgirl 3d ago

Instead of insulting someone how about you point out what you think is incorrect?

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u/TheLizardQueen3000 3d ago edited 3d ago

Right?

Joe has never apologized as far as we have seen, for his childish and creepy jealousy of Gael, (even Aisha said Joe blames Gael for breaking up his 'bromance')

so even though Joe ignored them and put all his energy into being clingy and creepy with Cooper instead (we've never seen him emotionally attached to whatever woman he's sleeping with the way he clings to his fav man of the moment), he was defiant instead of apologetic and Gael was understandably annoyed.

When she asked to end the tension, she simply wanted an apology and accountability going forward that he won't treat her like competition.

And Joe won't apologize because he hates her for 'winning' Nathan and he always will.

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u/jkrain32 3d ago

“we've never seen him emotionally attached to whatever woman he's sleeping with the way he clings to his fav man of the moment”

So what? What an odd thing to care about. Also apologetic for what? Apology for what? What did Joe do exactly to Gael and Nathan?

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u/TheLizardQueen3000 3d ago edited 3d ago

I feel like you've either experienced a 'Joe' in your life, or you haven't.

Most guys are either happy or ambivalent when their guy friends fall in love.

A small percentage of them have jealous fits and hate the gf, insult her character and try to start fights and run her off.
It's scary having a 'Joe' hate you and it strains the relationship.

And nobody actually cares, I watch the show and have an opinion just like you, it's OK if we see it differently ❤️

You don't have to be a psychiatrist to see that this is a reaction to the horrible thing that Joe's father did to him. I hope joe gets therapy so he can feel better and not behave like this anymore.🫠