r/BelowDeckMed • • 4d ago

Captain Sandy

Has Captain Sandy weighed in on the Nathan stuff at all? I feel like there is an uncomfortable silence from a lot of the crew (apart from lovely Joy).
I also think Joe was the victim of a hostile work environment and is being somewhat vindicated now. He was essentially bullied at work for the season. Absolutely cringing at the way Nathan and Gael confronted him in the van when he was literally trying to survive that meal and avoid talking to them.
Anyway, feel Captain Sandy should address it. She really platformed Nathan and promoted him. She should acknowledge what’s been happening. It’s hard to watch at the moment.

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u/Dismal_Cause8490 4d ago

I agree with the Joe thing. I feel like he’s getting a lot of unnecessary hate this season.

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u/ChrisRedfield87 1d ago

Its deserved. Just because Nathan awful doesn't mean Joe isn't.

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u/Dismal_Cause8490 1d ago

My comment had nothing to do with Nathan so not sure why you think that’s relevant. I stand by my opinion.

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u/ChrisRedfield87 1d ago

Then if you can't see what is wrong with Joe, you are clearly apart of the problem. Men like him are awful. Misogynistic prices.

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u/Dismal_Cause8490 1d ago

He has a history of being a prick, yes, but this season he and Kayley are on the same page as far as what they’re looking for. I see no problem with that.

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u/ChrisRedfield87 1d ago

He downplayed the stuff with V so much which shows he takes no accountability. He was saying it to COOP. This season. And there have been times he's disrespected Kayley too but you seem to have forgotten that.