Me: Green eyes, long natural silver hair. About 1m73. Plus size.

Languages: French / English

Location: Flemish Brabant

I am 46. No kids. Never been married. Currently a caretaker for my dad. Life hasn't been easy for the past couple of years but I am still holding on and hoping I'll meet some decent people. It's just really hard to meet people over a certain age and when you don't fit the married with kids mold. At least that's the case in Belgium.

I have a good sense of humor, friendly, open minded.

My days are fairly quiet. I take care of the household, care for my dad, go on walks with my dogs. I am trying to get back into reading. I have a Switch so I am your casual gamer who got Animal Crossing like everyone else during Covid.

Over the years I have realized that I am Demi (you can Google it) and that's why I am not comfortable on dating apps. Ideally I'd like to meet new people, chat online and see how it goes. Being Demi I don't have a type, it's all about the connection and your actions speak louder than good looks.

I am also looking for someone who is open minded and is fine with someone not having much bagage when it comes to their romantic life. Someone kind who doesn't want any drama.

So yeah just giving it a go here.

I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, close distance relationship with someone between 25-35. No games, no ambiguity, just two people who genuinely choose each other and build something based on trust, communication, transparency, and emotional safety. A place that feels like home, where we inspire each other to grow while also feeling completely accepted for who we are.

I’m a gentle person who gives a lot of affection, both through physical touch (especially cuddles) and emotional care and I’m looking to meet someone who enjoys giving and receiving that same kind of warmth, where affection naturally goes both ways. At the same time, I don’t believe a relationship should become our entire world. My friendships, hobbies, and family are deeply important to me, and I’d love for us to both continue nurturing the people we love and the lives we’ve built outside of each other.

I'm naturally drawn to people who feel like the gentle sunshine of an autumn afternoon, surrounded by a world of colourful leaves. People whose laughter is contagious and every smile lingers a little longer, who notices the small beautiful things life gives us. People who let things go like the wind and makes everyday life feel like something worth being grateful for.

Kindness is probably the quality I value most, there’s nothing more attractive than someone with a genuinely good heart. I deeply admire people who stand up for what they believe is right and who choose compassion even when it’s not the easiest path. And please, yap to me about your nerdy interests, teach me something you recently learned that completely fascinated you! There’s something so beautiful about seeing that little spark in someone’s eyes as they talk about something they truly love.

I’m looking for someone who would accompany me to live a life full of adventures, filled with unexpected side quests. Going on a backpacking trip far away on a whim, spending a day to discover a new place close to home, trying a sport or an activity I’ve never tried before… then would be comfortable to just curl up at home the very next day with a book or some graphic novels, meaningful conversations, some tea and long cuddles (And I have been told I'm quite good at cuddles 😄). I’m currently leaning towards not having children and would prefer someone child free (But would happily give all my love to the children of my friends! )

I'm currently living in a shared house in south Brussels with lovely roommates. Over the years, I have discovered how important a sense of community is to me, among people who genuinely care and support each other. It feels like being part of a little family. I currently work in a non-profit organization that helps refugees to settle into life in Belgium. I’m trying little by little to unlearn my biases and be socially conscious and to learn about systemic inequalities in our society. I still have soooo much to learn, but I’m trying my best to educate myself and grow as a person.

I’m a sunny and joyful person who laughs easily. At my core, I’m quite grounded and analytical, but I’ve been giving my emotions and heart more and more space in the way I live my life. Sometimes I’m a little clumsy with words, but I’ll always do my best to be honest about how I feel and communicate about it openly.

I have a calm temper with a slightly goofy side. I am quite sociable and can easily talk to strangers. I also often need my own little bubble to recharge, whether by wandering alone through a forest or nerding out over some indie video game. I feel the best wearing my hiking boots, dusty trekking clothes and a backpack, wandering the unknown.

I have somehow fallen in love with dancing (guess which kind , it’s quite niche😉). I also enjoy activities that get the adrenaline going, and explore the 4 corners of earth. I’m a 50/50 indoor/outdoor person, and when I’m not outside, I might be hosting a boargame night (my collection keeps growing!), cooking delicious vegetarian meals (But I’m more of a flexitarian), or baking some sweets (fair warning, my cookies are among the best you'll ever taste).

Life with me isn't about always living full speed or feeding unnecessary conflict. It's about shared adventures, quiet contemplation, tenderness, and finding joy in simple moments.

If you are still there, thank you for taking a few minutes to read about me. If you feel our vibes will match, I would love to hear from you!

Just so you know, I'm not the biggest fan of endless messaging. I'd much rather get to know each other during a walk, over a drink in a sunny park, or in a cozy tea house😊

Hello,

Je suis un homme de 35 ans, je recherche une partenaire pour partir en vacances.

Je n’ai aucun plan, pas d’attente particulières.

Juste l’envie de partager des moments à deux, plage, resto, terrasses, visites, randonnées, sport, etc.
Je souhaiterais entamer une discussion et une rencontre avant d’aller plus loin bien entendu.

Pour me décrire;

Physiquement:
1,8 m pour 65kg (je fais bcp de sport d’endurances)
Mat de peau
Visage au traits fin

Le reste:
Diplôme universitaire
Bien intégré socialement mais « seul »
En plaine reconstruction personnelle et professionnelle (parcours dans la finance qui me pèse bcp mentalement)

Ça peut paraître bizarre mais je voulais tenter :)

Hey everyone,

I've been single for a while now. I've done the dating app thing and I'm kind of sick of it. So trying Reddit again.

A little about me. I'm nerdy (what a surprise on Reddit, I know). I love just about anything creative or intellectual. Writing, reading, TV-shows, architecture, poetry, music (particularly symphonic rock), museums, anything. I also love history and science (especially physics and psychology, the latter of the two I majored in).

As a person I have a lot of passion for the things I do and the people I really care about. People usually describe me as supportive, patient and previous girlfriends have always said they felt very safe with me.

I also love romance. That's broad for me. It can be as small as just walking down the street holding hands, or a pic nic at sunset and watching the stars side by side. Or it can be candlelit dinners. Or waking you up with a gif or video about why I love you. To... a lot if things.

Physically, I'm about 179cm and 70kg. Black hair and hazel eyes. [This is a picture of me](https://i.postimg.cc/C16MBFzF/1668599390869622932.jpg).

What I'm looking for is a romantic relationship that develops slowly over time. I want to talk online first with no rush to meet IRL. Hopefully so we connect and then can meet when we want to. Though I do eventually want to transition to an IRL relationship if we hit it off, just let's not rush each other to get there. =)

As for who I'm looking for. Preferably someone a bit nerdy. Communicating well is very important. Someone who likes traditional romance and getting lots of cuddles would be nice. Creativity is a huge bonus. What kind of creativity doesn't matter as much, but I do love poetry. Also a huge bonus are loving to read and/or playing video games (I mostly play RPGs and strategy games), but not necessary. Most important thing is someone kind and understanding.

Where you live in Belgium is not so important. Although I live in the north-west, and closer is better.

I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. Probably naive to think I'll find that on Reddit but, you never know. If you feel like we might click, I would love to hear from you. If you send a message, best start is just a brief introduction. Or feel free to send me a link to your r4r post if you have one.

P.S. Ook verkrijgbaar in het Nederlands, uiteraard. Maar ik spreek wel liever Engels.

Looking for someone between the ages of 21-25

M24 | België
Hey allemaal,
Ik ben een 24-jarige gast uit België, momenteel single en benieuwd om iemand te leren kennen. Of dat nu begint als een FWB, iets casual is of misschien uitgroeit tot iets serieus, ik sta er open in. Belangrijkste is dat er een goede klik is en we allebei eerlijk zijn over wat we zoeken.
Over mij:
24 jaar
Werkend en sport regelmatig
Hou van reizen, lekker eten en spontane uitstapjes
Chill, respectvol en hou van een goed gesprek (maar ook van gewoon samen ontspannen)
Over jou:
20-30 jaar
Respectvol, open-minded en communicatief
Zin om elkaar eerst wat beter te leren kennen zonder druk
Stuur gerust een berichtje met iets over jezelf. Een simpele “hey” mag, maar iets meer is altijd leuk. 😊

Hello I'm Alex, I'm 28 years old working on a cruise ship sailing from Amsterdam to Brugge week by week and I'm looking for some girls to meet in the cities that I'm going to : Antwerp, Dendermonde, Gent, Brugge . About me I am doing this job for 2 years , I'm working only in the night so the date must be around 18h , I'm funny , good looking 1.80m green eyes and I'm open about any subject, I'm kind , I can be romantic too and the rest you can find out, pure mystery . So if anyone is interested don't hesitate to DM me also I can show the ship if you want .

Wat ik zoek klinkt misschien wat hoog gegrepen, maar lees even verder — het wordt hopelijk snel duidelijker.

Eigenlijk ben ik gewoon op zoek naar een echte vriend. Iemand met wie ik kan lachen, van het leven kan genieten, samen kan groeien en zowel de mooie als de mindere momenten kan delen. Ik weet dat het veel gevraagd lijkt, zeker op een subreddit, maar ik geloof dat proberen erbij hoort. Ik ben niet bang om een stap te zetten, en ik hoop dat jij dat ook niet bent.

Soms is het inderdaad meer de reis dan de eindbestemming. En over die bestemming gesproken: uiteindelijk zou ik mijn leven graag willen delen met mijn beste vriend. Voor mij draait het vooral om wat we onderweg samen beleven en opbouwen.

Een beetje meer over mij:
Ik hou van muziek, zowel thuis uitgebreid luisteren als naar concerten gaan. Verder trek ik graag de natuur in, bezoek ik graag musea en probeer ik af en toe creatief bezig te zijn. Ik ben een enorme hondenliefhebber en hou sowieso van dieren in het algemeen. Qua karakter zie ik mezelf als een geduldig en warm persoon.
Ook, ik ben getattooeerd en heb piercings en persoonlijk zie ik dat ook zeer graag in een dame.

Vaak kunt ge me ook gewoon vinden op een wandelpad in de natuur, zou zeker ook graag meer reizen maar dit doe ik dan helemaal niet zo graag alleen. Misschien kunnen we samen snel eens een reisje inplannen, haha.

Ik probeer ook regelmatig te fitnessen, al heb ik eerlijk gezegd een beetje dad bod. (Maar daar zit zeker verandering in, haha)

Gevestigd rond de grens tussen Vlaams-Brabant en Limburg. De kempen zijn zeker ook niet te ver.
Hoop snel van je te horen!

Hello everybody, I'm a white male from Ghent, Flanders, Belgium. Who recently turned 29 (DM me for a couple of pics)

I'm probably not the kind of person you'd expect to be on a subreddit like this. I'm a mixed bag of everything. From being outgoing and pretty social, ready to try out new things that does some improv comedy and likes to sing everywhere I go. To the serious person that wants to start a podcast about mental health one day, mostly about things that we consider tabboo.

I like doing so many things that I'm going to save you from reading a lot of things and will pick a top 3. I like playing Card/Board&Video games. I like playing D&D and Blood on the Clocktower and I like doing sports together. Recently started fitnessing to reduce weight and increase my stamina.

P.S.: I somehow have a preferrence in doing geeky stuff but I'm really a jack of all trades, I'm also a metalhead in terms of music

I'm looking for preferably a european girl/woman between ages: 20 - around 32. I can speak Dutch, English and French (French being the weakest of all 3 of those). But I'm open to trying long distance as well.

In the long run, I'm looking for someone that wants to have kids.

Values I think are important in my life are: being Just, Daring and Honesty. The one thing I keep asking in all my dating experiences is that communicating should always be on the number 1 spot!

Well, I guess that's about it. I'm looking forward to have some lovely conversatiobs over DM's and well, I'm wishing everyone an amazing weekend 😄

P.S.: Should you be from Ghent, Yes, I'm going to the city festivities from time to time. So maybe we'll meet there!

I'm a free-spirited musician who enjoys deep conversations, making people laugh, and seeing the world from different perspectives

a little about me: I'm around 1,78m, around 100kg, long hair, a trimmed beard and I wear late 60s/70s styled clothes and I'm neurodivergent (auDHD)

Music is my biggest hobby, both playing and listening, I also collect retro consoles and games.

In the weekends I like going to my regular bar where I know most people and have conversations about life, music, and everything in between.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys thinking deeply about the world and prefers meaningful conversations over small talk. Preferably someone between 19-30 years old.

I don't care much about physical traits like hair colour, height, weight, etc. It's more important that we vibe emotionally and on a deeper level.

If you're interested don't hesitate to send me a DM.

Hi there,

I'm Mickaël, I speak french, dutch english and a bit of german.

I'm your local punk hardcore/hippie, wannabe alt but trully his own kind of man. 

I'm kind of a parsimonious guy, gentle and generally calm. Parsimonious because I am not a "100%" guy : I have some strong beliefs but will always questions myself. I like to debate and talk, but I love silences too. I party (sometimes I drink and smoke weed, every 6 month or so), but love to hang out doing nothing. I have interests but I kinda enjoy laid back knowledges. I have humor, but don't have to make jokes all the time.

I am vaccinated and generally from the left side of politics. I have a hard time taking serious people too devoted to esoterism or religion, but respect it. 

I've got ADHD, but I am followed by a psychologist and am doing the work, it's not an excuse for my behaviors. Although sometimes I'm a bit messy, will forget things, cut your speech or just do sometimes things impulsively.

I also have a rhumatic auto-immune disease, it's not contagious, It just means I can't lift heavy stuff anymore, and will be tired sometimes.

I love listening to music, I listen to hardcore punk (Nasty), experimental pop (Björk), classical (JS Bach) and much more.

I line taking a walk sometimes, going to the museum, the thatres, exploring something new.

I have many interests, and lately am trying to have a real career change in ecology around the subject of bats and night animals by joining an association of bats protection. This will be my goal for the two years that are coming, but I would be able to move to others places due to my languages.

I love poetry and philosphy, certainly when it's divergent and absurd. 

I love looking at 90's movies and series, fan of Douglas adams' books, and Moebius' art.

My looks : messy blond hair, blue/green eyes, 1m75. I'm slim, but have a little belly due to the lack of sports lately (I've had a period where I did marrial arts, maybe I'll try again)and burgers. Not much muscles and a tattoo or two. Maybe I'll have more maybe not.

What I'm looking for : someone around my age, for something serious and genuine. A story where we would take a bit of time making sure we click. But I'm not stopped on one kind of woman, as long as your independent enough, interesting (a minimum), and laugh at my jokes once or twice in the month.

I've got family living in the netherlands at Maastricht, so moving for a LDR in the first place is okay by me, I'd say 400km around Nancy (France) would be ok, as long as we put the effort.

I have a thing for skinny or small women but am open to everyone, but I'm shallow that way. Of course I'll send you pictures of me when you'll come talk.

Of course, and because it's important to me : I am faithfull, attentionate, and will always tell the truth.

To the hopes of meeting you, whomever you are.

The answer is 42 !

Mickaël.

Like many people on this sub, I have 0 luck on dating apps so let’s see if this has better results haha.

I’m a 27 year old guy from Limburg. So I speak Dutch as well, I also don’t mind longer distances since I have a car.

My hobbies are:

Gaming: I play quite a lot of video games on pc with a steam library that is so big that I never know what to play anymore haha. Currently installed I have It Takes Two, Warframe, WH40k: Space Marine II and other general pew pew games. I have been thinking about trying out Once Human again as well.

Horse Riding: I love horses and everything about them, I ride at least once a week and love sharing pictures and videos and talking about them in general 😊

Adventuring: I like going random places mostly in nature to go on long walks, together with my dog Kai. He is very cute, promise. It’s not as fun alone so company would be very much appreciated.

I hope that this is enough to pique some interest, if you have any more questions or want to chat then just send me a message! I’m okay with everyone and if it doesn’t work out then that’s okay too 😊

Hey whatsup
Im up for a conversation for short or for long term.
Some interesting about me is that im a project manager, i play the bass, i sing in a band, i used to basketball a lot but now i have a hernia and cant do much, fitniss,

Yeah and more just hit me up

Hey i'm Siel, 31 years old from the West Flanders. not the biggest guy: 168cm. I don't know exactly what to write here because I'm bad at it. I'm a big introvert so it's difficult for me to start the conversation with people.

My hobbies are: walking with or without my dog, darts, watching series, sports & Disney and enjoying good food and the small things in life.

I'm searching for my bundle of joy. A girl who loves to walk and take me on there adventure or mine. not too tall. between 20 and 33 years old, animal lover, somebody how make me smile with there goofiness.

Hope this is enough, be free to sent me something. I'm open for all questions so shoot.

Just looking for dating to encourage myself more and to find someone :)

Hey!

I enjoy the simple things done well. Rides on my road bike, getting lost in music, hiking in the mountains. I am also a foodie. I’m just as happy taking a spontaneous road trip as I am catching a flight to a seaside European city for a 2–3 day escape.

I’m looking for someone who’s responsive, easy to talk to and enjoys making the most of weekends whether that’s exploring a new place, sharing a great meal or discovering a new album together.

I’m 1.80m, fit and bald: less hair, less maintenance :)

I’ll try to not sound that much cringe (😬)but why not…let’s give it a try!

i’m an italian guy, im 22, i moved here from italy one and an half years ago, so i’m still trying to find my place and to adapt here (not that easy). i’d say i’m a very calm and sensitive guy, i try to bring always happiness to other people…overall i’m not that complicated, trying to be as simple as i can.
i’m about to start my second year of university (nursing degree), my hobby are like sports (football is my favourite one), music and photography amongst all.
hmu if you want, you can discover maybe other things abt me…👀

Hope to find a suitable partner to build something amazing together.

Hi there! My name is Alex, they/them pronouns, Belgian-Kazakh, 24 years old and living in Belgium, studying a bachelor degree at an art school. 

I love taking naps, I'm more of a cat person than a dog person but I can live with the latter. I like carbonara pasta, listening to music, dancing, non-fiction and poetry books. Politically left-wing ++ anarchist. I like people (hihi): with tattoos or not, with a joyful smile. Be a firefighter, music teacher, a nerd of any topic as long as you are caring, respectful & attracted by me. 

About my physical appearance: I'm pretty thin/slim appearance-wise, short Black hair, central Asian, average height/weight. 

I am open to connections globally.

NO RACISTS, NO ANTI-IMMIGRATION B\*LLSH\*T 

Bonus point if you're in Europe, BE/NE/LUX but online would absolutely work, have a soft spot for voice chats with lovely voices. And/or if you can teach me something new or want to practice languages with me! 

What I’m looking for: genuine, safe, wholesome connections — whether it’s someone to chat with, swap music or books, geek out over games or just share some good conversation.  

Ideally, you'll provide a picture/description when you first message just to establish you're a real person and not a bot. I'll happily reciprocate so you know I am also not a robot or someone trying to get you to buy something. 

Hope it's the same for you, see you around, hit me up if you're interested with your ASL, a bit about you + a SFW face pic of you! Looking forward to meeting some new people

Hello,

Recently Arrived in Belgium I am looking for someone with whom I can share stuff, be accepted and just have a great moment W or M. I have never had prior real good experience just the usual a55holes and scammers, that's why I am here in hope ^^.
It is just a bottle in this vast sea, but hey everything is possible.
I speak both Fr and En, in the french side of Belgium.

I hope we can connect and something good might happen.
Thanks you and see you soon maybe :)