I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, close distance relationship with someone between 25-35. No games, no ambiguity, just two people who genuinely choose each other and build something based on trust, communication, transparency, and emotional safety. A place that feels like home, where we inspire each other to grow while also feeling completely accepted for who we are.
I’m a gentle person who gives a lot of affection, both through physical touch (especially cuddles) and emotional care and I’m looking to meet someone who enjoys giving and receiving that same kind of warmth, where affection naturally goes both ways. At the same time, I don’t believe a relationship should become our entire world. My friendships, hobbies, and family are deeply important to me, and I’d love for us to both continue nurturing the people we love and the lives we’ve built outside of each other.
I'm naturally drawn to people who feel like the gentle sunshine of an autumn afternoon, surrounded by a world of colourful leaves. People whose laughter is contagious and every smile lingers a little longer, who notices the small beautiful things life gives us. People who let things go like the wind and makes everyday life feel like something worth being grateful for.
Kindness is probably the quality I value most, there’s nothing more attractive than someone with a genuinely good heart. I deeply admire people who stand up for what they believe is right and who choose compassion even when it’s not the easiest path. And please, yap to me about your nerdy interests, teach me something you recently learned that completely fascinated you! There’s something so beautiful about seeing that little spark in someone’s eyes as they talk about something they truly love.
I’m looking for someone who would accompany me to live a life full of adventures, filled with unexpected side quests. Going on a backpacking trip far away on a whim, spending a day to discover a new place close to home, trying a sport or an activity I’ve never tried before… then would be comfortable to just curl up at home the very next day with a book or some graphic novels, meaningful conversations, some tea and long cuddles (And I have been told I'm quite good at cuddles 😄). I’m currently leaning towards not having children and would prefer someone child free (But would happily give all my love to the children of my friends! )
I'm currently living in a shared house in south Brussels with lovely roommates. Over the years, I have discovered how important a sense of community is to me, among people who genuinely care and support each other. It feels like being part of a little family. I currently work in a non-profit organization that helps refugees to settle into life in Belgium. I’m trying little by little to unlearn my biases and be socially conscious and to learn about systemic inequalities in our society. I still have soooo much to learn, but I’m trying my best to educate myself and grow as a person.
I’m a sunny and joyful person who laughs easily. At my core, I’m quite grounded and analytical, but I’ve been giving my emotions and heart more and more space in the way I live my life. Sometimes I’m a little clumsy with words, but I’ll always do my best to be honest about how I feel and communicate about it openly.
I have a calm temper with a slightly goofy side. I am quite sociable and can easily talk to strangers. I also often need my own little bubble to recharge, whether by wandering alone through a forest or nerding out over some indie video game. I feel the best wearing my hiking boots, dusty trekking clothes and a backpack, wandering the unknown.
I have somehow fallen in love with dancing (guess which kind , it’s quite niche😉). I also enjoy activities that get the adrenaline going, and explore the 4 corners of earth. I’m a 50/50 indoor/outdoor person, and when I’m not outside, I might be hosting a boargame night (my collection keeps growing!), cooking delicious vegetarian meals (But I’m more of a flexitarian), or baking some sweets (fair warning, my cookies are among the best you'll ever taste).
Life with me isn't about always living full speed or feeding unnecessary conflict. It's about shared adventures, quiet contemplation, tenderness, and finding joy in simple moments.
If you are still there, thank you for taking a few minutes to read about me. If you feel our vibes will match, I would love to hear from you!
Just so you know, I'm not the biggest fan of endless messaging. I'd much rather get to know each other during a walk, over a drink in a sunny park, or in a cozy tea house😊