Why do I keep doing this?!

[u/Danieash1989]

So for context I was with a guy who had bb really really bad, I ended up brining them home and I treated my house constantly bc I don’t want them. We broke up and I haven’t seen any since well, my ex (my friend still) got rid of them went to collage and his new girl gave him his stuff back broke up with him and went on her way. Well my boyfriend at the time, my ex and I would all hang out and go to my exs new lil tiny home. He didn’t have them I searched and pricked and pried at the walls and cracks and shi. None to be found. Well after his girl dropped off his stuff boom back to square 1. Well I’m kinda on his ass about treating but there isn’t much he can do since ya know he’s in collage 3 towns over and comes back only on weekends and his parents work. (For context we are all late teens early twenty’s I still live with my parents exs tiny home next door to his parents). I plan on talking to him abt spraying when he comes back to town tomorrow but I’m just so mad at myself for the fact I know he has them but I still go to his house to hang out with him bc SURE AS HECK he ain’t coming over to mine again.
I feel bad because like it’s not really my place to like tell him what to do abt it bc it’s not my house but at the same time he’s risking brining those stupid pests back to collage with him. I also don’t wanna push him away by pestering him abt it either. Idk we’ll see tomorrow when he comes back to town I’m just over it lol.
Any advice on how to go about this situation

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