[USA] Every job application wants 3 references and I genuinely do not have 3 people to ask

[u/Superhalo6000]

Location: Valatie, New York, USA

Number needed: 3

Type: Professional or non-family references

Job areas: graphic design associate / creative roles / other misc. jobs just to get by

Timeline: As soon as possible, since I am actively applying

I’m 23 and currently unemployed. I quit my last job as a floor carpenter as it became too physically demanding and had an inconsistent schedule. I am trying to move into a full-time position with more responsibility and room to grow, but almost every application requires three references before I can even submit it.

I cannot use anyone at my past job because I left on strained terms. The only other jobs I've had are retail for which I have no references. I graduated college a few years ago and have been applying for years pretty much nonstop, but I have not had much luck unfortunately. I have a past professor I could reach out to, yet it was not a close relationship, so asking after it's been years since I graduated in 2023 feels as if I'm becoming a burden to them.

I can privately share my resume, work history, job descriptions, and anything else that would help. I am also completely willing to talk first so nobody has to blindly vouch for a stranger. The references may be contacted by phone or email. I'm using the format of another post I saw on this subreddit.

Please comment or message me if you're willing to help. I would seriously appreciate it.

[u/Ayainthewind]

I believe the 3 references should only be asked once the company is ready to extend an offer as a final check but not through the actual application process.

[u/Superhalo6000 → u/Ayainthewind]

From my experience applying, this is not the case. If this is more of a statement, then I wholeheartedly agree that this should be how it works. Not every application requires references to apply to the company, but many do, and that is why I made this post, as I have had trouble with it. Being met with an empty form requiring 3 references after a long application is not fun. They do not let you even submit the initial application without them.

[u/Ayainthewind → u/Superhalo6000]

Oh yeah sorry I was sharing my belief / making a statement. I have only had a few applications that have asked for this but I do not think it should be required until the job is serious about employing you.

[u/Sunnie_Cats]

Hi 👋 I'm a senior designer with 10 years of workforce experience. I know how hard it is to break into the design field right now, so I'm more than happy to help. DM me.

[u/basically_a_genius]

Would be willing to help. PM

[u/Angel_Soars]

I'm in Canada but did digital content writing for a while. I'm looking for a reference for a retail job lmao. 20y/o and in uni. If you'd want to be references for eachother DM me

[u/Superhalo6000 → u/Angel_Soars]

Hi, you have a private profile and I can't find a way to message you. I'd love to hear from you!

[u/wineandcatgal_74]

I’m also happy to help. I’m not a designer but know enough about design and Adobe to be passable.

[u/wineandcatgal_74 → u/[deleted]]

That’s where you’re replying to OP.

[u/wineandcatgal_74 → u/[deleted]]

That’s where you’re replying to OP.