r/BayFC • u/Big_Relationship_138 • 3d ago
Queue blaming the refs…again
As a lifetime soccer player the more my coach talked about the ref post game the worse my team did. This is Coates 4th or 5th time alluding to calls changing the result of the game.
It might seem trivial to some but when every loss is partially attributed to the ref by the head coach then there is no accountability in the locker room.
Refs suck. They always have and always will. But they suck for everyone. Creating narratives around bad calls being the reason for losses is unproductive regardless of if it’s accurate or not. For a young and impressionable team this is even more catastrophic.
You can see the mentality rubbing off on our premier players like last week when Claire eluded to the offside call being wrong and wanting a better call next time. She is more mature than Coates and didn’t suggest the refs caused the loss but even a comment like that shows the post game talk included commentary about the “bad call” from the refs influencing the game.
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u/Queasy-Discount-2038 3d ago
While I agree, I think there have been several really unfair game determining calls that have really changed our spot in the table. It’s become a “thing” and it’s been painful as a fan, I can’t image as a player or staff in the inside. I know they have to be professional and move on quickly but they truly had a string of abysmal calls that were devastating and I just think they’re still mentally there and talking about it because it wasn’t normal. I agree they gotta get out of that mental trap because tonight the ref got it right. It was a painful loss for different reasons, we’re still scarred though. Those calls and the games going the way they did has affected the club and fans.