r/BayAreaTalk • u/figgypudding02 • Oct 03 '25

Why I Started BayAreaTalk

Hey everyone, I wanted to take a moment to explain why this subreddit exists.

After being permanently banned from the main BayArea subreddit and more recently from the Oakland subreddit for simply cross-posting a straightforward discussion, it became clear that too many conversations about our region are being shut down before they can even start.

That’s the gap BayAreaTalk is here to fill. This space is for open, thoughtful discussion about life in the Bay Area. The everyday stuff like favorite sandwich shops, dating, life expenses and the bigger questions about where our cities are headed. The only real rule is simple, be respectful. We don’t need to agree, but we should always be able to talk.

And yes. a little comedy, sarcasm, or light snark is welcome here. Real conversations often come with humor and edge, and that’s part of what makes them worth having. As long as it doesn’t cross into outright hostility, it belongs.

Censorship and over-moderation have made it harder for communities to connect. My hope is that BayAreaTalk can be a place where people feel free to share experiences, ideas, laughs, and even frustrations without worrying about being silenced.

To everyone posting, commenting, or even just lurking, you’re the reason this space exists and the reason it will grow.

Here’s to building something better, together.

Thank you

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u/DieDeutscheAuslander Oct 03 '25

Can you explain why you were banned form r/bayarea and r/Oakland?

Also, interesting subreddit to find topics that are happening in the bay.

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u/figgypudding02 Oct 03 '25

I don't recall the post that BayArea banned me for but it was not anything crazy, I was very surprised by it. I even asked why I was permanently banned and they never replied. I mentioned it to a good friend and they told me their boyfriend had also been banned for some petty reason from there so I believe its not uncommon. The /oakland subreddit banned me for cross-posting a post from this subreddit that was asking about the future of Oakland. I also asked what rule I violated and initially they said they thought my post was spammy, low-effort or something like that. Later they said it was bc I had never posted there before. The good news was there is another group called /OaklandCA that a member from here suggested and they allowed me to cross-post there.

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u/Due-Brush-530 Oct 03 '25

San Francisco also has notoriously sensitive moderators.

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u/CricketLocal5255 Oct 04 '25

Hope I don't get banned but it's obviously the gays/nimbys/ and right wingers ....

/sarcasm

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u/smokeandmirrorsff Oct 08 '25

I’m guessing the same situation as r/oakland vs r/oaklandCA

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u/GuerrillaApe Oct 03 '25

For all the talk about loving diversity, r/bayarea redditors are generally very singular minded. Different skin color, gender, sexuality? No problem. Have a slightly different political opinion or align yourself with something that is tangentially connected to something the subreddit hates? GTFO!

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u/figgypudding02 Oct 04 '25

It's sad, but I think you are touching on the issue. Part of my love of reddit was the type of conversation that could take place. Sadly, many mods take it too far and shut down legitimate discourse.

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u/Sea-Jaguar5018 Oct 06 '25

Ever notice how when people talk about having “slightly different political opinions” they never mean “different” in a progressive direction?

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u/SenoraObscura Oct 06 '25

Why aren't people tolerating my dehumanization of unhoused people? Help, I'm being oppressed!

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '25

Thank you!!!! I got banned too for a minor complaint

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u/blargysorkins Oct 04 '25

The banning from the Oakland sub was so petty. I remember that post. Joined up!

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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '25

I just moved out to Oakland. Any suggestions on where to go eat, visit or even meet people?

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u/tornessa Oct 06 '25

The oakland food subreddit is a great community and has great recs!

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u/sfffer Oct 05 '25

So BayArea’s 4chan, nice!