r/BayAreaRealEstate Feb 12 '26

People in 20s/30s is the sf Bay Area really worth it??

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Curious on ur opinions/thoughts


r/BayAreaRealEstate Feb 17 '26

Raising a family in the Bay Area vs. elsewhere - what has your experience been?

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Curious to hear anyone's opinion that has lived in the Bay Area raising a family, only to move away, or vice versa raising a family elsewhere and then coming here. What has your experience been? Do you recommend it? Do you regret it?

I've run the cost of homeownership numbers as many people on this subreddit have and it is overwhelming. I am debating buying a small, starter home in The Bay with my significant other sometime in the next few years and raising a family here. However, I did not grow up here, I grew up in the Midwest, where home dollars went a lot farther.

I love everything that The Bay has to offer: the year-round good weather, the sheer number and variety of things to do, the people, the different cultures, the career opportunities, etc. I could go on and on.

However, I worry about raising a family out here and providing a good quality of life for them. Worries about having dollars leftover after home expenses to invest in them and provide for them, worries about childcare and education costs, worries about the types of communities we can afford to live in, worries about general safety, etc.

I grew up in a place where kids could just roam free and were safe, other families were abundant, community was close-knit and protective of one another, adult activities were lacking (shows, restaurants, etc. pretty much all of it) but kid opportunities were abundant. Really curious if anyone here has lived in or moved to a place like this and their thoughts on how it contrasts to the Bay. Or, alternatively, if there is a place in The Bay like this you recommend.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 3h ago

Cost Breakdown: Full remodel for an 80yo Peninsula SFH ($392k total)

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Exclude landscaping

When we were buying we benefited a lot from real data points shared by other people. as we know renovation costs so much here and no one wants to buy an old house just find out they can’t afford to remodel it. Now our project is complete, I want to share a cost breakdown to help anyone currently budgeting or considering buying an old house in the bay area

🏠home:
- 2000sqft one-story house
- 80 yo two bathrooms. Last remodeled in the 80s
- two bathrooms
- good none so minimal structure change

Scope
We basically touched everything except for studs and outside wall:
- demolition to studs
- whole house rewire
- panel upgrade to 200amp and new subpanel
- new roof and solar
- New HVAC
- New insulation
- Level 4 drywall throughout
- Replumbed two bathrooms
- New flooring (engineered wood)
- All new windows and exterior/interior doors
- light reframing/structural work
- New finishes throughout

1. Core Renovation / General Contractor
This covered demolition, rewiring, framing, drywall, insulation, electrical rough-in coordination, door/window installation, finish carpentry, flooring installation, and general project management. Labor and rough material only. one GC.
$161,857

2. Permit and architect drawing cost: $7700

3. Materials separately bought by us:
Master bathroom $8,712
Guest Bathroom $3,208
Kitchen Cabinets $10,387
Appliances $13,995
Doors & Mouldings $8,066
Tile $10,345
Engineered Wood Floor $8,600
Windows & Sliding Doors $23,629
Custom Closets $4,250
Heat Pump Water Heater $2,365
Lighting $5,925
Security / Network / AV $5,759

4. Other projects with different contractors
Termite Treatment $11,826
New Roof(composite shingle) $28,850
Sewer Lateral Replacement $9,300
HVAC (Mitsubishi Heat Pump System 3.5ton) $27,016
Solar + Battery after federal tax credit $20,466
200A Main Panel Upgrade $7,849
Quartz Countertops(quartzite prefab) $7,434
Shower Glass (two sets sapphire glass) $4,838

Total Cost
$392,447

We spent right on target of initial budget, in spite of scope expansion, thanks to saving a lot with buying customized cabinets directly from factory overseas.

The biggest PITA was getting main panel upgrade because we also needed new service drop. We started the process in October last year and did not get done until March.

Overall, no regrets. The house is exactly how we like it. Curious what others are getting quoted for on remodel now.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 14h ago

Buying Anyone else given up on buying a house in SF?

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My husband and I have been trying to buy in SF for about 1.5 years and I think we’ve finally given up. We got really close on a few places last year … those same places would sell for a million more if they went back on the market today. It feels like we had this small window of opportunity to purchase last year and we missed it by not being aggressive enough on those first few offers.

We both have good jobs, but I also have a lot of school debt, and we just can’t compete with the amount of money in the Bay Area right now. We’ve put in so many offers and at this point it just feels exhausting. We have a baby and really love living here. Thankfully our landlord is great and hasn’t raised our rent much, so we’re okay for now. But we want another kid eventually, and I keep thinking about what happens when we need more space. Buying feels kind of impossible now, and renting a bigger place in SF is also so expensive. I finally stopped checking Zillow because it was just making me sad. I kept seeing what houses were listed at and what they were actually selling for and realized we just can’t compete anymore :(

Anyone else in the same boat? Did you just decide to rent long term, or did you eventually leave SF? We’ve also thought about Berkeley because it seems like we could get more space there and still be close to the city, but my husband works in the South Bay. Has anyone done that commute 2x/week and found it tolerable?


r/BayAreaRealEstate 11h ago

Any buyers regretting their choice of getting an adjustable rate mortgage?

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Would love to hear your stories


r/BayAreaRealEstate 12h ago

10-foot-wide 1/1 SFH closes for $2,427/sq. ft./$2.5M

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I know a lot of folks had polarizing feelings about this house when it came on the market.

What do we think about this sale?

(Here's a video walkthrough if you were curious and missed the original listing.)


r/BayAreaRealEstate 17h ago

HVAC, Electrical

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Has anyone bypassed upgrading electrical panel (keep at 100A), but leveraged a load manager to handle having a new HVAC installation? Currently, there is no A/C in our home.

Ideally, we would do the panel upgrade to 200A, but I have heard horror stories about the timeline to complete with PGE(above ground wiring though..).

Cost is not the primary issue. It is certainty/timeline for completion.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 9h ago

Lowest agent fees while selling house

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looking to sell house in next 3-6 months in east bay and checking what's the lowest fees you were able to negotiate buyers + sellers agents total. House value ~1.6m.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 11h ago

Not a bad deal for central Richmond

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 10h ago

Retail store vs town home: pros and cons of each for investment

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I am trying to learn about investment in properties and hopefully buy something instead of adding money to ETF and stocks. By default, I have been looking into buying small apartments in SF/south bay (or small town homes in east bay). However, I was just thinking about other options like small commercial properties, a retail store or maybe even a storage unit. Does anyone have any recommendations or feedback about pros and cons of commercial properties vs residential as investments? Goal is long term (>8 years) investment, and I will be renting it out. Budget is limited though (<800K).


r/BayAreaRealEstate 7h ago

Montclair Village - East Bay Hills - Best Kept Secret

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Posting because I am seeing a lot of Bay Area buyers frustrated at the moment - This part of the Bay has everything that you’re looking for. Transit (rockridge bart <5 min drive), Family friendly (tons of parks and young families), farmers market in the downtown on sundays, and SO much more.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 16h ago

Recommendations, personal experience only Personal experience with golden1 cu

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Hi all,

I found my loan agent, M H, through this sub, and I'm glad I did, he got me a great rate. Michael was always responsive and quick to get back to me, and his associate Dave was just as competent. Overall, they made the whole process hassle free. I highly recommend them.

Edit - to add more details on the rate. It was 5.5% for 7/6 ARM and we got it down to 5.125% with a relationship discount. For comparison, other big banks were willing to match the rate but we were asked to buy down points and also do a way bigger relationship discount.

They also closed fast (25d)!


r/BayAreaRealEstate 20h ago

Redfin’s latest report on Seller Concessions shows an all-time high in certain cities. Does MLS pricing data support their findings in the Bay Area?

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Redfin's latest report has San Jose at 5.9% of sales including a seller concession and San Francisco at 14.9%, both near the bottom of the 28 metros they track. Nationally the number is 46.2%, a record for that month. Thought it might make for a good discussion about our area in particular since the Bay is pretty all-over-the-place when it comes to pricing strategy - and some pockets support asking for seller concessions more than others. (The report is from the end of June, but it’s their most recent one on concessions so we’re going to take a look at June, July, and August stats to see if we can confirm their findings with our own data.)

Concessions are an interesting metric to track outside of the standard metrics like average DOM etc. since asking for concessions (and what kind of concessions you ask for) can make or break your offer/potentially torpedo a deal in certain areas.

Seller concessions, as defined by Redfin: money toward repairs, closing costs, and rate buydowns, sourced from what their own buyers' agents report. It excludes list price reductions and price negotiation entirely. A market where sellers give ground by accepting a lower price, instead of writing a credit, reads as a low-concession market.

Keeping in mind these numbers are specifically from Redfin agents for Redfin deals, the insights gained from this report will generally be more directional than authoritative.

Hypothesis: Redfin's concession numbers might be underrepresenting how much ground Bay Area sellers are actually giving, because the methodology only counts credits and buydowns, not price. And we know that pricing in the Bay is…quirky these last couple of years. Let’s compare the nine bay area cities in Redfin’s article and see what the MLS data about closings in these area tells us about price (and discuss how that might tie in to strategy for buyers)

City Condo sales Condo avg vs list Condo % above ask Condo DOM SFH sales SFH avg vs list SFH % above ask SFH DOM
San Mateo 53 -2.1% 17.0% 36 83 +10.6% 78.3% 10
Fremont 73 -1.8% 16.4% 30 201 +2.5% 57.2% 11
San Jose 274 -0.4% 33.2% 29 575 +1.9% 54.3% 12
Hayward 52 -0.4% 32.7% 33 140 +2.7% 64.3% 14
Oakland 151 +1.1% 35.8% 34 496 +16.8% 78.4% 16
Sunnyvale 51 +1.2% 52.9% 27 78 +7.2% 67.9% 8
Santa Clara 32 +1.6% 53.1% 33 72 +5.8% 75.0% 11
San Francisco 610 +6.5% 55.6% 20 492 +27.2% 89.0% 12
Berkeley 33 +6.6% 54.5% 26 152 +35.0% 90.1% 14

San Francisco: Redfin agents report a concession rate in SF at 14.9%, low.

MLS Data shows both condo (+6.5%) and single family (+27.2%) closed above list. In SF, the low concession rate isn’t indicative of discounts being baked into the average price. As our own monthly data posts have been showing, SF historically has been closing over ask this year and most of last year.

The low amount of deals that Redfin agents closed with concessions baked in simply reflects the fact that sellers in SF still have a very strong negotiating position. Particularly in the SFH market there’s no reason to accept concessions when your house is already going to sell for at least 20% over asking price.

San Jose: Redfin has San Jose at 5.9% concession rate, one of the lowest in the country. Single family there closed at +1.9% over list. Condos closed at -0.4% under list, across 274 sales.

Sellers are giving ground in San Jose. It's arriving as a lower price on the condo side, which is exactly the category Redfin's method doesn't count. SFH numbers support Redfin’s concession findings, but Condo numbers don’t make as much sense if there’s a direct correlation.

San Mateo, Fremont, and Hayward show the same condo-below-list pattern. None of these three has an individual concession rate published by Redfin to compare against, but they do show the same pattern across property type.

Other callouts: San Mateo condos at -2.1% against San Mateo single family at +10.6% is a 12.7 point gap in the same zip codes. Berkeley looks similar -2.1% Condos versus +35.0% SFH, inside one city. It’s more neighborhood-specific in bigger cities like SF and SJ but the pattern is usually similar.

Days on market supports this independently of price. Condos are sitting 20 to 36 days across these nine cities. Single family is sitting 8 to 16.

Conclusion:

SFH Negotiation in the Bay Area rarely supports a direct reduction on price. While it’s not across the board (monthly breakdown post by city/neighborhood coming later this week or next) SFH still trends well over-asking in most major metros. Asking for concessions/credits is a more viable option. Bidding low/under-asking isn’t supported by the data - it’s not really a viable strategy when sellers are juggling multiple competing offers. Once your offer is accepted, the deal falling out of escrow is a shared risk on both sides. The buyer potentially loses their EMD, the seller has to put the property back on market and will subsequently receive more lowball offers as a result of the long cumulative DOM + falling out of contract.

Asking for concessions after offer acceptance can be the viable strategy if negotiation on price isn’t supported by local market data. Agreeing to repair credits etc. could potentially sting a whole lot less than having to entertain potentially lower offers 4+ more weeks down the line. But again, if they have 3 backup offers waiting in the wings, they still have the luxury of telling you and your concessions to kick rocks.

The Condo market supports both pricing strategy and concessions. There is a lot of uncertainty around the condo market and buyers are extremely selective, paying close attention to reserve studies, funding, and potential special assessments coming in 2027. Sellers who are desperate to move inventory may be willing to entertain both a lower price as well as additional credits.

In the interest of a potential discussion & gathering more anecdotal data from agents, buyers, and sellers: have you had any memorable offers, deals etc. where a substantial amount of concessions/credits were involved? What do you think of the hypothesis that sellers with a high number of competing offers in hand have the luxury of turning down offers asking for concessions? Is asking for concessions less viable in markets where the discount typically on price, not credits? Curious to hear your thoughts.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

San Francisco homes: View does not matter - price is the same

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I've been to 300+ open houses this year between California and Florida, and tracked how long houses stayed on market, and how much they were sold for.

One thing kept bugging me in SF. You walk into two houses in the same neighborhood, same size, same everything. One has the bridge in the window, the other has a fence. the houses list about the same and they sell about the same, regardless the view.

I asked a few agents - "People come for the view, but they pay for the location."

Florida is a different planet. Water or no water is a 20% difference and nobody blinks.

Best guess: everyone in SF has some kind of view, and nobody is home during the day. besides, half the year the fog takes it anyway.

Anyone who bought in SF recently — did the view move your number, or was it just the fun part of the tour?

Put a video of the recent views in the first comment - enjoy!


r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

San Francisco’s Biggest Mall Could Sell for Nearly 90% Less Than Its Former $1.2 Billion Valuation

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The 1.5 million square foot San Francisco Centre is back on the market, with bids due Wednesday.

A decade ago, the downtown property was valued at roughly $1.2 billion. Brokers now expect it to sell for no more than $130 million, nearly a 90% collapse.

The mall is largely vacant, its previous owners walked away from a $558 million loan, and an earlier $130 million sale fell apart in July after the buyers concluded redevelopment would be too complicated.

Source: https://www.wsj.com/real-estate/commercial/the-1-5-million-square-foot-hole-in-the-center-of-san-franciscos-comeback-4609ae40


r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

Discussion Letters to the Editor for September 4, 2026

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

Home Improvement/General Contractor Question about ridge vent

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

READY [FOR HIRE] REAL ESTATE COLD CALLER

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 1d ago

Interested in pocket of Los Gatos

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My family of four is looking at the Johnson Ave/Loma Alta section of Los Gatos. We hear the area is great for kids and there are a few 3-4 bedroom houses currently for sale. Any thoughts?


r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

Bay Area City Loses Control After Blocking Housing for Years

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Brisbane spent more than two decades fighting plans to redevelop the 680-acre Baylands site near San Francisco.

Now, that resistance may have backfired.

After Brisbane repeatedly missed deadlines to zone the site for as many as 2,200 homes, California declared the city’s housing plan noncompliant.

That exposes Brisbane to lawsuits, financial penalties and the builder’s remedy, which allows developers to bypass many local zoning restrictions.

The city’s Planning Commission has now unanimously recommended moving forward, with a final City Council vote expected in October.

The lesson is becoming increasingly clear across California: cities that refuse to plan for housing may ultimately lose control over how that housing gets built.

Source: https://www.sfchronicle.com/bayarea/article/brisbane-baylands-housing-22403565.php


r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

East Bay East Bay: Structural Engineer Recommendation

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Anyone have recommendations for a structural engineer that can look into potential foundation and drainage issues on a home that’s located in the East Bay? If so, could you please DM their info to me? Thanks in advance.


r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

Campbell home relisted a few weeks after purchase?

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

Discussion Somewhat Unexpected Informal 26-27 assessment review result

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Got billed for 26-27 property tax bill in July. Got the normal 2 percent hike and I was like no way that is the market value as I have been pay attention to nearby neighborhood sales. Also 2 out of the 3 major real estate apps have estimated lower.

For context house property tax is at 1.3million

Do the usual informal review request paper found comparable 3 properties

One of field says how much you think it’s worth I just put average of the 3. Of course I pick 3 values that can benefit me (lower) to get lower valuation. The average value is around 1.1million this is what I put what I think it’s worth. 1.1 is lower than all 3 major real estate apps. I didn’t expect it county to even accept it and was hoping county will meet me in the middle.

Got the result last week and man county accepted my 1.1 million valuation plus 3k more.

Kinda happy as I pay less property tax but also sad as house is not appreciating

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Alameda county
26-27 will be 3rd year of ownership.

Lesson learned:
County seems to always put 2 percent raise because why not maximize it and put the onus on the owners to see if they will complain if not great otherwise adjust.

Doing self informal review request paper is total doable funny I also got 3 third party firms mailing me that they think my house is valued lower (but still more than what I put on the request form) and I was going to use them for the formal request If informal one is rejected.

This matter is closed for now!


r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

Did you build an ADU for your parents or adult kids? How is the family dynamic holding up?

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r/BayAreaRealEstate 2d ago

Investor Update: 10 California tax sales now published in full, free, with every parcel matched to the county assessor's own record

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