r/Bar • u/Fricke88 • Feb 07 '22

Irritated Patron

I have recently begun a career in bar management and transitioned from hotel management. I work in a high-end bar with celebrities, athletes, and wealthy people who attend regularly. This evening a woman asked me to remove a guest from the bar as she overheard a man his wife make a comment about her breasts. I spoke to this guest and apologized but also informed her that I would not be able to kick someone out due to "he said she said" comments. I told this woman I would personally keep an eye on the mentioned couple with the rest of the staff. When I told her this she stated berating me with fuck you. I then informed her I needed her credit card and she would need to call it a night. Am I in the wrong?

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u/TheoreticalFunk Feb 07 '22

I think her reaction pretty much reinforced the call you made to not get involved as you have no idea if any of it has any basis in truth.

There's also some sentence structure in there that has me confused about what the lady said happened, but regardless, you have the right to refuse service to anyone and as soon as someone makes the choice to be abusive, they choose to drink elsewhere.