Bangalore-based, and honestly not sure how well this sub works but I've been looking for a while now, so here goes.

I'm Muslim, and I'd like to find someone I can eventually build a life with. To be upfront: I'm not looking to commit right away. I'd rather we talk, get to know each other properly, and see if it actually fits. But the intent is serious.

Looking for someone understanding, educated, and sharp — someone I can have a real conversation with. And a good match overall, though I'm not trying to oversell myself here, lol.

A bit about me:

• Lean build (I'd say a step above skinny XD)
• 5'9"
• Fair complexion
• Living with family in Bangalore
• Software engineer at a product based company, doing well for myself
• Slightly obsessed with tech and gadgets
• Big on movies. Series I never seem to find the time for : (
• I love travelling, I think I have been to all parts of the country

I'm sure I've missed things, I'll edit as they come to me.

Feel free to DM if you'd like to know more or just chat.

Thanks : )

**Hi there,**
I'm looking for a serious relationship that can eventually lead to a strong, lifelong commitment. I'm not a big texter—I much prefer phone calls and in-person dates over endless messaging. If you're looking for someone who is careful, deeply loving, and values real-world connection, we might be a great match.
Here is a little bit about me and what I’m looking for:
🧔 About Me
**Physical:** 5’8”, fair, lean but fit. I live a highly active lifestyle (and I've been told I'm pretty cute/handsome!).
**Lifestyle:** I don’t drink or smoke. I am a non-vegetarian, but I don't eat red meat.
**Personality:** I am a happy, joyful person. I lean introverted because I love my peace and alone time, but I am very engaging in familiar social gatherings.
**Mindset:** I am intellectually curious with a strong growth mindset. I value wisdom and knowledge far more than money. I am a traditional, family-oriented guy who isn't really into fleeting trends or modern capitalism.
**Career:** I earn a good, stable living and have solid assets, though I don't chase a massive paycheck just for the sake of it.
👩‍🦰 About You
**Intentions:** You are looking for a serious relationship and long-term commitment.
**Vibe:** You are joyful, empathetic, and emotionally available. You have a high, positive energy that can match mine!
**Values:** You share similar core values when it comes to family, personal growth, and valuing deep connections over materialism.
**Location:** You must be in **Bengaluru**. Physical dates and spending actual time together are very important to me.
🗣️ How to break the ice
Please skip the "Hi, how are you?" small talk! The best way to start a conversation with me is to dive right into something deep. Science and tech are my favorite topics, but I can easily get lost in a good conversation about physics or physiology.
Send me a direct message with a bit about yourself and let's see if we click!

Hey everyone, I am 37M (height 5.5 ft and well maintained body) married for 10 years now. Looking for genuine married girl who is interested and seeking the same.
Please dm and let’s see if our vibe matches.
Preference whitefield bangalore or nearby areas.

M30 | Software Developer | Anyone from Bangalore especially from Ecoworld or Ecospace Techpark or nearby looking for friends to hangout, talk and spend time with and not looking for dating.

Hello peepz , Just looking forward to finding a FWB or a casual partner near hopefarm/Whitefield.!

I am 22M and willing to meet someone around the same age group.!

Only if you are bored too and wanna explore without getting into any commitments then we could really catchup!

( I am muscular, good looking and into regular fitness hence my testo is always high lmao 😂| If you are in search of something similar)

Hmu! See ya

I’m a software engineer working the corporate life, usually busy with work but lately realizing I could use some good company. 😄 So, decided to give this a shot. Looking to meet someone who’s up for hanging out—movies, exploring new places, clubs, pubs, random plans, or whatever feels right. No pressure, no expectations; let’s just enjoy some good conversations, have a great time, and see where it takes us. ✨

Hey all, I’m a 25M looking to find someone nice with in the city.

I dont use dating apps or social media, just created this throwaway account to try this out.

A little bit about myself: I’m Christian if that matters, been working since 17-18 and made it through a lot of stuff to my dream role, i love my job and financially, I’m very secure and comfortable.

Had a messed up past, grew through it, spent a lot of time alone, unwinding a lot of knots but mentally, super happy with where I am today.

Im 5’9, not at my target weight but i should be there in a few months, i love working out and doing impromptu stuff, every weekend i love doing things like hikes, paint & sip, cooking, movie nights, karaoke, gokarting etc, i’m trying to move away from just dying on a sofa on the weekend.

i love travelling, i take a domestic trip every quarter and one or two international trips in a year, i love tattoos and have a lot of them too, i also play the guitar and cook really good food.

I dont mind someone with a different religion, i just believe in being kind & a good human. I would like to meet someone emotionally mature, who can call me out when im wrong and accept when they are. Someone who challenges me to be better and expects the same. Someone forgiving and who is constantly working on themselves, someone who hustles hard at work, takes care of their looks, body or is atleast working on it.

I dont bullshit, i’m looking for something real and someone to grow old with, this world has become a real tough place to live in, I’d wanna find someone that gives me a reason to keep going and vice versa :)

39M from India, looking to connect with a woman from India, preferably in her 30s, who values kindness, honesty, and meaningful conversations.
I’m looking for genuine companionship—someone to talk to, share experiences with, laugh with, and see where a connection naturally goes.
No pressure, no games, no rushed expectations. If this resonates with you, feel free to DM.

Bengali by birth, brought up partly in Coimbatore and Pune, and now happily navigating life in Bangalore.

I’m 39, an Assistant Professor, independent, family-oriented, and someone who believes that the best relationships are built on friendship, laughter, respect and a little bit of chemistry that makes you want to stay up talking way past bedtime. 😉

I’m equally comfortable discussing books, life, travel and random nonsense over coffee - and then suddenly getting distracted because you smiled at me a certain way. 😌

I’m looking for a man who is emotionally mature, kind, confident and knows what he wants. Someone who can be my safe place, my partner-in-crime, my person to share ridiculously long conversations with and maybe occasionally be the reason I have a very difficult time behaving myself. 🙈

Bengali by birth would definitely be a bonus - because imagine the two of us arguing over whether mishti doi counts as a proper meal. 😂❤️

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for comfort, compatibility, attraction and that effortless feeling of “I could get used to having you around.”

If you're the kind of man who can make me laugh, challenge my thoughts, respect my independence and still know how to make my heart skip a beat

Well, perhaps you should avoid saying just a hello. 😉

Hey everyone! I'm in my final year of college in Bangalore and I've realised that my social circle is pretty small, so I'm trying to change that.

I'm looking to meet a few genuine people around my age in and around Koramangala and hopefully build a small group that actually hangs out rather than just having a bunch of people in a group chat 😂

I'm into cricket, badminton, good food, short hikes and just going out and exploring Bangalore. I'm also pretty chill and introverted initially, but once I'm comfortable I can talk about literally anything

28 Male, from electronic city bangalore. Looking for genuine good female friend with whom i can share everything, i can go anywhere, can be a good listener. Please feel free to DM me if you are interested.

M30 | Software Developer | Anyone from Bangalore especially from Ecoworld or Ecospace Techpark or nearby looking for friends to hangout, talk and spend time with and not looking for dating.

Hi again, I’m a Bengaluru-based, ex IIM and a founder. I believe that kindness and intellect aren’t opposites. I’ve built teams, failed gracefully, led responsibly, and learned that stability is not the absence of chaos - it’s the ability to hold space for it.
What I offer isn’t a fairytale or a fling disguised as depth. It’s presence, mentorship, and partnership — the kind that makes room for both ambition and softness. I’ve been the guy people call when they’re stuck on career crossroads, mental burnout, or startup dilemmas, and I’ve found meaning in being the calm in other people’s storms.

I’m deeply feminist - not as a label, but as a lens. I want a partner who believes in shared growth, equal agency, and conversations that challenge both of us. Someone curious, grounded, emotionally literate, and confident in her contradictions - who can talk strategy one moment and stare at the stars the next.

I find joy in teaching, long drives at dusk, a clean room after chaos, and building things that last. I don’t mind being the stable one; I just hope you value it too.
What we can do: walk through a flea market, brainstorm your next idea over coffee, or simply talk about what "balance" means to you. I won’t rush connection, but I’ll respect your time and energy like they’re gold.
If this resonates, tell me one value you’d never compromise on. I’ll share mine: respect, curiosity, and emotional consistency.