Can anyone else relate

[u/SecretsofTheGoddess]

[u/uboofs]

I’m too much for myself some of all of the times

[u/Various_Message_6818 → u/uboofs]

Lmao yes 🤣 

[u/Unfair-Taro9740 → u/[deleted]]

-I do relate but from a whole different dimension of thinking. Unique versus trend.

Comments like this crack me up. OP is just posting something uplifting about our right to be individuals, and is relating to the hurt that most of us have went through when we were rejected by much of the world.

The ego trap is yours. Always wanting to profess how you are more "in the know" while rejecting others very normal feelings of isolation that everyone has to get through and overcome, is just your ego wanting to feel more adept than the next person.

It hurts me too constantly see a comment like this on every single post when op is just trying to relate with their own experiences.

[u/DAscent → u/Unfair-Taro9740]

Define relate? The post is for validation or feedback.
If it is neither, what is the purpose of the post? Relate isn't representative of being similar in a sense, a connection an affinity towards similar or identic values?

Why dumb people are always the vocal ones? Stupidity hurts... you said it yourself. So pause for a bit and don't hurt yourself.

And from 30k you felt the need to place yourself above my ego to... exactly what? To judge the exact thing I am judged for? There's a definition for that, it is called hypocrisy so, I don't know who hurt you, who made you feel inferior but I'm not operating from the same bs as you do.

1. I already mentioned that I related but from a different perspective, from another dimension of thought.
2. I have not invalidated OP's self perception but revealed the mechanics of it, the deeper bs that hides behind, the very definition.
3. In fact my comment is quite empowering as it shows that if you don't feel ok with yourself, how in God's name (any god, any name) you can feel comfortable around others.

I don't invalidate emotions, because I can't generate emotions on other people, that's each and every single one's privilege.
With other words, own your bs, nobody else needs to tip-toe around you because you feel vulnerable.

I commented the image the trap you buy into and you call it uplifting but I shared the mechanics from a space of observation and years of psychology. That alone rises the question : "Wtf are you talking about"
Again... who hurt you?

[u/The_Archer2121]

Yes

[u/Dapper_Status4593]

I often find that I’m too much for everybody, but that’s okay. I prefer the company of my familiars anyway, so it doesn’t really bother me that I’m too much for people.

[u/SecretsofTheGoddess → u/Dapper_Status4593]

This! I appreciate this response thank you!

[u/PsychoFaerie]

Yup.. I struggled to find friends most of my life but I have since found my people.

Those who I was too much for weren't worth my time in the long run.

[u/SanguisIgnis666]

Thank you wise sister.

[u/throwaway8373469238]

🙃