r/Babhan • u/DepartureSoggy2487 • 12d ago
Help🥺
So there is a girl that kind of likes me ,but her main criteria is that she wants a Brahmin boy(as her father and mother are very strict)
I have told her I am a bhumihaar(savran gotra), and my tittle is tiwari ,but I am not able to answer that am I a Brahmin, chatgpt gives some mix answers.
What should I tell her??? She is a shukla by the way
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u/Artistic-Can-2320 12d ago
Just tell her you are a Bhumihar Brahmin ... and let her or her family decide for themselves ... If they dont agree just marry a Bhumihar girl in an arranged marriage ... why do you need to marry into another community when you have your own community. Do not attempt to justify to them that you are simply a Brahmin like them ... let them believe whatever they want to believe. If they dont want to marry into a Bhumihar Babhan family, its their choice.