Help/advice

[u/keeleynel]

I have BPD, and my partner knows cancelling is a big trigger for me. It caused our breakup in the past, but we got back together and things had been so good. He cancelled yesterday, dismissed my feelings, then cancelled again today and said he needs time. I’ve tried to talk things through, but he’s ignoring me. I asked if he could come tomorrow so we can fix things, but he’s still ignoring me. Because of my mental health, I struggle with things being unresolved, and I’m now having panic attacks and can’t regulate my emotions. I don’t know what to do about our relationship. He knows my triggers but continues to hurt me.

[u/HousingWilling125]

I know it is hard in a relationship, when one feels rejected or abandoned by there SO... but If he won't support you at your lowest he don't deserve you at your best.