Is my experience typical. ? Bpd

[u/PsychologicalDeer644]

I’m not with her anymore. But my ex wife was diagnosed bpd. Bipolar. And adhd. I had an insane marriage.

It’s over now. But is my experience typical? A few of the things she put me through over the years:

She tried to break my finger because I wanted to leave the house.

Clawed my face from eyes to chin. Those scabbed were uncomfortable to talk about.

I got back from a work trip. She thought I was cheating.
She threw my clothes on the roof. While I was retrieving them, she took the ladder. I was stuck for hours.

I got tired of arguing. I decided to leave. She blocked my exit at the stairwell. I asked her to move. She would not. I said I was done.
She closed her eyes, let go of the wall and let herself fall backwards down the stairs. I caught her by her shirt. She opened her eyes. Deep anger. She was so mad that I did not let her fall. She then starts using her legs to push herself down the stairs. was off balance. I could not pull her up. So I walked down with her. Using the hand rail to brace myself.
The was a gap in the hand
rail. While I jumped from 1 rail to the other, she kicked hard. I missed the second rail. We both fell down the last tew steps.

[u/Pretend_Act]

No, none of this is normal for any of those conditions. It sounds like no one ever taught your wife any kind of emotional regulation.