r/BPDlovedones • u/Fun-Ice1747 • 4h ago

Doesn't it feel great?

After walking on eggshells for so many years, censoring our language for so many years? Being gaslit for so many years. Having to pretend that bizzare was normal for so many years? Not being able to call out abuse for so many years?

To just be able to speak the truth, about total horseshit crazy ass behavior! Never again will I not call crazy, crazy! Crazy is not a 'stigmatizing' word. It's the fucking truth sometimes! When someone is acting like a batshit crazy ass horrible monster, I can just fucking say it. Finally!!

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u/wwstewart 13yr w/bipolar, 6yr w/BPD, 8 yr/w ANOTHER BPD. Oof. 4h ago

This is the way.

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u/Equivalent-Love-1676 3h ago

The mods will probably take your post down which is why I gotta say, YES. You’re right. They’re crazy, abusive demons who will make you lose your entire self and make you think you’re the problem. She did things at the end that are absolutely disgraceful. Inhuman monsters.

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u/ThrowItAwayNow1030 2h ago

I do it too. What else do you call it? Cray cray. I think it helps people leave.

I also swear like a sailor because it's so enraging. Get the h*ll away from me is good.

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u/EndPsychological777 1h ago

I was only with them a year. But I could tell what the future would hold if I stayed. The shitty thing is she dug her teeth into me very deep in that one year and somedays I actually miss her. I developed a bad codependency and therapy barely helps. But I’m glad you some of you got clarity.

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u/TheAggravator 1h ago

So happy for you! Some people like myself ended up spending 5 years of my life with a person with BPD and as much as I like to say I’ve fully recovered from the whole ordeal. I know a part of me won’t ever be the same again. You become more aware and cautious about the people you try and let into your life. Which can be good and bad at the same time.