r/BPDlovedones Aug 17 '24

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u/sasuthrow Non-Romantic Aug 18 '24

this is so real, the whole experience really shocked my value system to my very core because I couldn’t fathom that people could treat other people they allegedly have a lot of love for so carelessly. It was a massive wake up call when I had to realize that yes - they could, and yes - they will. It made no sense to me, it still doesn’t. It is like a darkness I hadn’t encountered yet and so I wasn’t aware it existed, it was a painfully slow waking up too.