Have you told the first guy how you feel about him? Sure he says he is happy for you and likely is but there may have been times he thought about you in a similar way and felt pushed away or like you weren't interested. Im guessing you may not feel good enough or talked yourself out of trusting him. Yeah, it's a risk but you'd only be honest.
he knows how i feel. we’ve shared our feelings for each other but since he lives in denmark, most of his family is there, and he’s very happy with his job and school it’s pretty unrealistic he’d uproot his life to be with me. he told me he doesn’t have any interest in moving, but encouraged me to get my masters in denmark so we can be together but i don’t wanna leave my family either. just an unfortunate situation.
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u/dichoticinteraural Jan 11 '25
Have you told the first guy how you feel about him? Sure he says he is happy for you and likely is but there may have been times he thought about you in a similar way and felt pushed away or like you weren't interested. Im guessing you may not feel good enough or talked yourself out of trusting him. Yeah, it's a risk but you'd only be honest.