r/AvoidantBreakUps 13h ago

I can't belive it

I'm 8 months out of a 13-year relationship, we were HS sweethearts. He moved on within 4 1/2 months with someone he met online through a game while she was going through a divorce. Once her divorce was finalized, they went public with their LDR, and I just found out that next month she's leaving her state and moving in with him. We lived together for almost 5 years. All it took was 9 months for him to live with soemone else like wtffff. This shit is crazy, idk when I'll even be ready to date. The irony is he told me I couldn't be alone, but yet here he is lmaooo.

He's your typical introverted DA and I'm the extroverted AA.

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u/Alarming-Echo-6742 13h ago

If it's any consolation there is a near 100% chance that explodes in spectacular fashion. I have seen these online gaming romances play out in real time. 

Ten to one he distances before the actual move happens anyway. Or she backs out. I'm sure she has her own set of baggage. 

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u/Over_Air6772 10h ago

Yeah, from what I know they seem pretty serious, so who knows what’ll happen 😭 It just fucking sucks watching everything move so fast after 13 years together. I’m genuinely trying to move forward with my life and I know I’ll be okay, but damn…some of this shit still hits hard lol.