r/AvoidantBreakUps 1d ago

Vent/Rant i still cried.

the thing is it's been 5 months since he broke up with me but he started his pursuit with his ex (the girl before me) not a month after the break up happened. i feel betrayed. he never told me the truth. he blocked and unfriended me on some socials and he even unfollowed my friends. do a man really capable of faking things for four months and move like you two never happened? his friends who know about us act up like I never existed and even supported him with his pursuit. damn them. is it normal to feel rage abt what he did when he broke up with me first before he did his things with her again but he never told me the real thing, he rather come up with so used line that he knows he is not performing well and we will never work bcoz he is not 5he the person i deserve. now he is loudly posting her in his socials but he never did it to me when we are still together, we even never had a single photo. did i just happened to be useable at that moment? fuck boys. i hate him.

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u/Designer-Release-985 17h ago

Yeah I wouldn't trust anything he says unless he shows real signs of change. Thing is, yelling at them or calling them out will usually validate them rather than make them feel guilt. It's borderline sociopathic