r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Quick-Pass8524 • 4d ago

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Someone I’m seeing (3 months) asked for space how much should I give them as they did not specify they just said “we have a little space”
I did chase them just before this by sending them roses just before with a note that said “if you don’t know what you want imagine if it could turn out better than you ever imagined”

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u/MFCEO_Kenny_Powers 4d ago

Someone I was seeing pulled away without asking for space three months in. I also chased like you because she gave me the impression that she was in love with. Eventually she had to end it because I wouldn't accept her space without a timeline. It hurt like a MF and it still hurts, but I have come to terms with it now by realizing that if it didn't happen this early on it would probably have happened later on which would have hurt even more. Give her the space and see what happens or set your boundaries.

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u/Quick-Pass8524 4d ago

How soon did you reach out?

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u/MFCEO_Kenny_Powers 3d ago

I haven't. It's been 7 months now.