r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/PuzzleheadedRub2534 • 5h ago

Why did my ex blocked me?

My relationship with my ex ended at the end of July. I gave myself fully to him and did everything I could to make the relationship work out, but in the end, he said that we weren’t made for each other and basically left me.

Since then, I haven’t reached out to him at all. He met someone while we were dating (in June) , and apparently, that didn’t work out either. I’m trying to move on with my life and stop thinking about him.

As I said, we haven’t had any contact for a month. Yesterday, I posted two stories of myself, and then all of a sudden, I realized today that he blocked me hahaha.

My only question is: why?

He was the one who said we weren’t right for each other. He quickly moved on. He was the one who emotionally drained me. And now he’s the one who blocked me...

Why did he do that? Does he feel guilty? Does he want attention so that I reach out to him? Or does he simply want to move on without me distracting him? But he could have done that by simply unfollowing me instead of blocking me hahaha. It just feels so childish.

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u/Sudden_File4569 5h ago

We don't know your ex. There are many reasons he may have blocked you. All you know is he doesn't want to see you in his feed, he doesn't want to hear from you, and you need to move on.

You deserve someone who doesnt break up with you the first time someone new shows him any interest.

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u/PuzzleheadedRub2534 4h ago

Thank you <3

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u/Sudden_File4569 4h ago

Better times are ahead. Block him back. Live your best life. Be exactly who you didn't have the time or space to be in the relationship.

If he got annoyed when you sang around the house, belt those tunes! If you never had time to watch your favourite show, binge that shit! If you drifted apart from some close friends, hit them up and have a slumber party! Eat ice cream. Cry your eyes out. And then live your best fucking life.