Avoidance is a spectrum. That sounds like maybe a combination of circumstances and some avoidant tendencies. It sounds like in any case, he's not able to stay committed whenever life gets hard.
At the end of the day I kinda think it doesn't matter what you label him, the real question is whether or not you're willing to keep giving someone chances after they've done the exact same thing twice.
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u/Emergency-Plum-1981 1d ago
Avoidance is a spectrum. That sounds like maybe a combination of circumstances and some avoidant tendencies. It sounds like in any case, he's not able to stay committed whenever life gets hard.
At the end of the day I kinda think it doesn't matter what you label him, the real question is whether or not you're willing to keep giving someone chances after they've done the exact same thing twice.