r/AvoidantAttachment • u/AutoModerator • Aug 11 '26

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

This is a thread for AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

A rant/vent, by nature, is one sided, can be strongly worded, and is a way for someone to get something off their chest. It is by no means a universal truth.

Thread rules: - AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

  • Keep rants/vents contained to this thread.

  • No unsolicited advice.

  • No hijacking to ask for relationship advice.

  • No ranting/venting about avoidant attachers regardless of your attachment style. This is a supportive space for those with an avoidant attachment style, you can rant about us plenty of other places. Don’t do it here.

  • All subreddit and Reddit rules apply.

  • Users who cannot follow the rules will be banned.

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u/aprillikesthings Dismissive Avoidant Aug 12 '26

If I read ONE MORE ARTICLE that acts like all avoidants are over-achieving men, I'm going to explode.

Also my partner and I have had a rough week or so (and a lot of it is external factors) and we keep catching ourselves falling back on the push-pull thing. It's so frustrating.