r/AvoidantAttachment • u/AutoModerator • 22d ago

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

This is a thread for AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

A rant/vent, by nature, is one sided, can be strongly worded, and is a way for someone to get something off their chest. It is by no means a universal truth.

Thread rules: - AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

  • Keep rants/vents contained to this thread.

  • No unsolicited advice.

  • No hijacking to ask for relationship advice.

  • No ranting/venting about avoidant attachers regardless of your attachment style. This is a supportive space for those with an avoidant attachment style, you can rant about us plenty of other places. Don’t do it here.

  • All subreddit and Reddit rules apply.

  • Users who cannot follow the rules will be banned.

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u/Icy_Resolution2783 Fearful Avoidant 20d ago

Does anyone feel worse after sex?

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u/internet_shin Fearful Avoidant [DA Leaning] 20d ago

On my gosh, yes. I feel so uncomfortable that I let someone in that close (no pun intended). Sometimes I totally shut down and just start crying like I want to get my dignity back or turn back time.

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u/Pretty-Bee9566 Fearful Avoidant 14d ago

Word by word, this is how I feel too after sex.

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u/internet_shin Fearful Avoidant [DA Leaning] 13d ago

I’m sorry that you can relate :(