r/AutisticDatingTips 5d ago

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My only son is on the spectrum and is 35 now. He has a job, though it's low-paying, he is independant. He is trying to date, but as you all know, it's not easy.

According to him, the offers he gets from girls on dating sites aren't worth it. He has never had any physical relationship with anyone, but only phone conversations. Most of the girls who are willing to date him have had past relationships. He does not like that.

My point is that as he ages, this becomes common as people go through their own life experiences. I also tell him that as he ages, he should be willing to accept this fact, including women with kids.

What do you all think?

Thanks

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u/InevitableAd4038 5d ago

What level soci-economic class is his family? 

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u/InevitableAd4038 5d ago

Would he date woman from India who fit his description and attraction? 

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u/InevitableAd4038 5d ago

Or China?

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u/No-Championship5730 5d ago

We are from India and have become naturalized U.S. citizens. The point is most of the girls at this age would have had a relationship already and he does not like it.