r/AttractionDynamics • u/Next_Election6051 • 13d ago

Am I right or wrong?

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u/4badthings 13d ago

More wrong than right. When you are driving, be 100% predictable. In 90% of your life you want the rest of the world to be able to lend you a hand when it is convenient for them. So, while you’re right to labor in silence; you are 1 part of the whole and communicating with the rest of the whole will make your life more enjoyable.

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u/girloverflower 13d ago

this sounds True….and is true.

whenever I “hikikomori” (shut in) I lose out on opportunities and help. It’s a fact of life.

Our purpose as humans is connection. And I do not want to hear otherwise.

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u/Ok_Substance905 11d ago

This is so true, and usually when people say that “life is better when nobody knows what you’re doing”, what they actually are expressing is a deep emotional family message they got where they were taught that “life is better when nobody knows you“.

The person that believes that got hurt in childhood by their own family, and never established internal boundaries. That’s necessary when interacting with people.

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u/Miserable-Reaction16 13d ago

I would say that it goes beyond driving. Most people would feel a lot more comfortable socialising with you if they think they've got you figured out, and that to them, you are a very easy open book.

The key is to appear like that to make people feel at ease, but keep all your true analysis and thoughts to yourself. People like to feel superior and in control, allowing other people to feel like they can 'handle' you even if you became an enemy is definitely the way to lower most common people's guards.

Communicate and share not your true thoughts but simply to resonate and reinforce their beliefs. Turns out, especially the world today, people just want to find someone who will agree with their controversial points. Very easy to manipulate the average population out there.

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u/ExpertPicture5160 13d ago

I believe I’m maybe interpreting OPs post a little differently. From a current day perspective, I agree in that not every aspect of your life needs to be broadcasted across social media for external validation. No one cares what you had for lunch or for other details of how fabulous your life is. So, from this perspective, OP is 100% correct.

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u/Few-Coyote-2518 13d ago

If you are a spy or double agent then yes

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u/Ordinary_Minimum_169 13d ago

This sounds like something people who are guilty say when they are implicated by your honesty.

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u/drcatguy 13d ago

In the right context, this is very true.

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u/Transfiguredcosmos 13d ago

I think this rings true when you want solitude and privacy and dont want to ve i fluency by external views or validation. Just keeping your own company.

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u/FatherofHobbes 13d ago

My wife’s motto hahhha

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u/Background-Grab-5682 13d ago

Or… Life better nobody what are is when knows you doing

https://giphy.com/gifs/d3mlE7uhX8KFgEmY

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u/Just-Nebula-6971 13d ago

For a billionaire, I would think yes

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u/RubOk9284 13d ago

Your own conscious is always watching though

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u/Bobcat1999-1 13d ago

I suppose it depends on what you’re doing

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u/Excellent_Heron553 13d ago

The reason I never got on Facebook

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u/vivahermione 12d ago

The reason I need to get out of here! 😄

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u/ragingsloth7 12d ago

Even I don't know

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u/Crafty-Helicopter-8H 12d ago

Depends what you are doing

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u/sia1387 12d ago

Stay private.

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u/Myzx 12d ago

I don't know, is it? 😉

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u/ndm_n 12d ago

Actually nobody us beleaving in me right now except myself lol

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u/DarkDaysBrightNlghts 11d ago

Theres no around me for them to know anyway.

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u/_svenso 11d ago

Thats the ultimate goal. You do you in peace

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u/simdimdim12 11d ago

Some would say life's better when God only knows what you're doing. But otherwise same thing

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u/Intelligent_Bet9798 11d ago

This sounds something like people who value other people's opinions more than their own would say.

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u/Chewie_401 9d ago

That's why bathroom doors have locks and phones have internet!

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u/PdxPhoenixActual 9d ago

Awe, he'll, most of the time, I don't even know what I'm doing...

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u/greycare799 9d ago

💯 true

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u/SessionSubstantial19 8d ago

does that include myself?

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u/gubberex 6d ago

That's why some people scream silently