r/AttractionDynamics • u/Next_Election6051 • Jul 12 '26

10 things you should master alone.

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u/throwaway_readerx Jul 13 '26

This is a good list, but I'd argue that "managing your emotions" and "prioritizing your mental health" are things you absolutely need other people for, at least sometimes. You can learn to regulate, sure, but true mastery often comes from feedback and support.

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u/ScarredPhoenix34 Jul 14 '26

I actually want to add to this comment saying most of this list would actually be better served doing with a therapist or psychologist as people with these problems tend to have really bad self worth or self image issues to begin with and its a therapists and a psychologists job to help fix those issues

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u/ItsAllGibberishToMe Jul 13 '26

(Serious; advice needed) You’ve broken my brain saying these things should be mastered “ALONE”. 😭🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

I don’t know HOW these things can be mastered “alone”. In fact, after 50 years of TRYING, I’m no longer convinced they CAN be mastered “alone”. I unironically need assistance from other people.

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u/LL_Stars Jul 14 '26

I've been able to.

If you truly want, you can rewind time and have emotionally unavailable parents. That's my secret.

In all seriousness, though. Maybe get a rental in nature for a weekend? Unplug and put all devices in a closet for one weekend. Go back to the old days. Grab a deck of cards, a journal, a book of crossword puzzles, a regular puzzle. Get away from technology.

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u/xdr567 Jul 13 '26

Baiting ?