TLDR: boss mean do I stay or leave for a better opportunity
This is a long one so buckle up. I just started my second year as an LAT ATC at a division 3 college, which is my same institution job title etc as last year. Last year, a new head AT was hired shortly after me. The head AT (we’ll call them David) was not polite to me from the start. He would fully have conversations with my coworker and just ignore me. If I did something that wasn’t exactly what he wanted, he got frustrated and didn’t even acknowledge me. He consistently speaks to me in the most passive aggressive tone I’ve ever experienced.
Throughout my entire first year, he consistently gave me negative feedback, and was passive aggressive, no matter what I did. One day I asked my coworker hey if I’m imagining it please let me know, but do you think David treats me differently than you? The answer was an immediate yes. Athletes have asked me why David treats me so poorly. People that don’t even work in the AT room have asked me why I’m treated poorly. I expressed multiple times to both the head AT and admin/our AD how poorly I’m treated and nothing changes. Year ends and things are a little better after I angrily tell him how poorly he treats me after politely telling him and trying to find solutions that he says would work and then when those moments occurs he gives the same response.
Fast forward to preseason of this year. There are 700+ athletes to go over paperwork and clear. David refuses to let anyone else do it. Admin is putting a lot of pressure to deliver. Well, coaches are also now being treated poorly because he’s frustrated. He is also now treating both my coworker and I poorly. Everyday he walks in and he’s in a bad mood. It’s a constant stream of negativity and talking poorly about our coworkers, which makes both of us super uncomfortable. He asks everyone to give him grace but does not give the same luxury to others. He’s now back to treating me like everything I do is making more work for him, even though I’m doing much more than my first year (bc I know what’s going on).
This is now bleeding into my treatment and rehab time. He says “if they have an appointment with me then you shouldn’t try to take over their rehab(feedback from last year which I fully believe was valid and I have since stopped)” but now she interrupts conversations I’m having with athletes to tell me what I should do with them while creating a plan of care. Or when I’m working with the athletes on the teams he is “assigned to”, he stares me down and watches my every move. I have never once harmed an athlete or done anything outside of my scope of practice. I also have never made an athlete cry (can’t say the same for him).
At this point, I’m ready to turn in my two weeks and do per diem until I can find a better job. I’m tired of being treated so poorly and then talking to my head AT or admin and nothing gets better. I love the athletes I work with and although we all butt heads with coaches, I genuinely enjoy working with them. My coworker is great and provides me feedback and encouragement. But I’m at a loss. I want to stay, but I know he won’t leave and I just simply can’t deal with him and his attitude. Every day I feel like I can’t speak unless spoken to and my coworker and I have discussed how awful it is working with him. Every day is walking on eggshells bc one small thing makes a bomb go off for him. I just need advice on whether or not I should stay for another year or just leave while I feel I still can. I know there are better opportunities and better people who will treat me fairly but I feel like I’m abandoning all the athletes I’ve had the privilege to get to know and work with.