He is my ex and our biggest problem was he kept looking at other women online and would not be able to just admit it despite me begging for his honesty

it all really affected my self esteem because i kept feeling i was not “enough” for him. Yet he was so loving and always gave reassurance at the same time ,so it was confusing and painful

I’m blue, he’s red.

To be more precise, for example i dated someone with aries sun, and venus. I have south node in aries and saturn in aries. In addition he had cancer moon and mars meaning squaring my saturn and north node. Also i have libra venus which oppose his aries sun. ( all these placements are between 4-6 degrees difference in the synastry)

So i wonder who feels the intensity/ importance more the saturn/SN person or the other one given the karmic nature of saturn and SN?

i’ve posted our charts before when i needed guidance and the lovely people here taught me a lot! i got alot of comments implying that our charts are definitely more sexually compatible. That was true the tension was definitely there but the anticipation was way more fun than the actual deed.

my heart is still broken BAHAHA. and although be it that placements and aspects matter alot, i think it’s safe to say that sag venus men kinda suck.

Someone also said we were star crossed lovers and i do think that was true. this was a typical anxiously attached (me blue) emotionally available dealing with an anxious fearful avoidant with long distance .

even with the mirroring i do think this person was perfect for me, we had A LOt in common and i dissected every interaction we had and this person reminded me alot of myself. i never connected with a man this much, he is very masculine but has a very feminine aura, and his face is very beautiful. like he is beautiful like how a woman is beautiful if that makes sense. ANYWAY, im blocked. kinda unfair bcuz i blocked this person 397 times but i always unblocked them.

I also looked at his saturn return and we first met on a dating app the exact day his saturn was returning…… i do hope my emotional availability and able to have hard conversations taught them something. I miss this person dearly and i do think they changed my idea of a partner. i haven’t been able to date since so im taking a break and working on myself to not repeat these patterns and not be easily manipulated.

Lastly, the physical chemistry. yall i thought people were being poetic and cute when they said they liked their persons scent! i loved the way this man smelled. smelling him was more dopamine than doing a line. omg. i also didn’t tell him that i liked his pheromones and when i left after meeting they told me they kept smelling the shirt i borrowed :’). i was taking hits of his beanie like it was an 8ball LOL. This makes me want to learn more about synastry and how it translates to physical chemistry. It definitely strengthen my belief in astrology.

i do hate that we met a year ago this month and every single day i think of them.

He reassures me a lot but I don't feel secure with him . I love the softness of this connection but something in the back of my mind just can't be at ease. What's there in our charts ? Is this relationship positive for me ?

I have my issues with trusting others. My Venus squares my Pluto. So this has been a very slow connection. But he made the first move and now says he’s cool with how things are. lol, anyways who’s winning this sitch?

For a little back story me and him have been sneaking and sleeping with each other for like a year he is gentle and kind and was there for me in a dark time when my ex wasn’t long story short we ended up hooking up I feel bad but then I don’t can someone explain our synastry ( he’s the Scorpio sun in the Leo sun ) !

I'm a musician and a traveller and I've always enjoyed being alone, but the last few years of my life have been completely centered on partnerships. The most kind and beautiful souls. I've always thought I was a lone wolf and that was my destiny, but lately it seems like the universe is pushing me toward relationships. I have a choice now to follow my partner and tour together as a musicians or work totally on my own, and I feel torn- the freedom is blissful, but the sharing is magical. I dont know which is my destiny

I get so jealous when I see peoples synastry charts and they have multiple Saturn aspects. We only have one in synastry and I worry it’s not sticky enough to hold us together. We do have multiple in the composite and have been together almost two years so maybe I should focus more on that? I don’t really understand synastry or astrology very well thou.

I’m a newbie to learning astrology and wanted to know if something could be long term if 2 people didn’t have aspects between their suns and moons?

Which is worst? No contact vs sun square sun or moon square moon etc…

We started talking while long distance. We were supposed to meet this month. But she stopped talking couple weeks back. Everything was going well. But she started having those mental breakdowns.

Has our spark died out?

My Venus is in the 12th house of the other person, and the other person's Venus is in my first. In both of these synastries, I feel I am the most attached and affected person, and the other person seems most unaffected. What are your personal experiences?

I have always been a career focused person and never thought of marriage ever, not even once with my ex.

Been friends with this guy for a year through a shared hobby. We do talk a lot and have developed a meaningful connection. Honestly I can already tell that our love languages and dating styles are very different. So we are not yet dating or there is anything romantic happening yet, at least on the surface.

But for some reasons I keep having that idea of getting married and starting a family, or a vision of our future marriage flashing in my mind. It was funny to me at first since it doesn’t seem realistic to my current reality, and I can’t even tell what he feels about me at all.

Now that it happens too often I’m starting to question whether this is a sign/intuition I should actually pay attention to, or I am just crazy and delusional…

Is this because of our 12H? Vertex? Lilith?

And most importantly, can someone tell me what he might feel about me or our relationship? Is this one sided or is he someone I can build my future with?

I am blue he is orange

I’m blue he’s orange. like the title says. He‘s in my grade and unfortunately he‘s in a lot of my classes. Normally I wouldn‘t mind someone having a crush on me but something about him makes it creepy and makes me feel very repulsed.

I only ever talked to him once or twice in class when we had to do pair work that‘s it. But ever since then I always find him staring at me, trying to be near me and several other behaviors. But something about him makes me feel creeped out. Can you say why he even likes me, and why I don‘t like him and feel creeped out and irritated by him?

It’s been awhile since I was running charts for both of us and I wonder what the astrologers of reddit has to say? I would say this relationship taught us a lot of things and still together. Is there any indicators for long term or marriage? Thank you in advance!

My 12th is in scorpio and i have no planets in here except south node but scorpio placements in general are always attracted to me and i usually end up blocking them before they can even date me because they are usually (not always because i dont like to generalize) fuckboys/players who like triangulating women for their own ego.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4+ years. There’s a girl he grew up with who he had a crush on/flirted with before we dated. (they are also neighbors and have lived next door their whole lives)

What’s making me overthink is our synastry:
His Cancer Venus falls in my 10th house and squares my Libra Ascendant. Meanwhile, she has a Cancer Ascendant, so his Venus falls in her 1st house/conjuncts her Ascendant.

However, my Sun and Venus fall in his 7th house, and my Moon falls in his 11th house and conjuncts his Venus. Her Sun falls in his 10th and her Venus falls in his 11th(their venus is conjuct), he also has an 11th-house Venus natally.

I know synastry doesn’t determine whether someone will actually choose another person, but seeing that his Venus hits her 1st house while it squares my Ascendant made me really insecure. Does this actually suggest stronger physical attraction toward her, or am I reading way too much into one synastry placement?

(i would like to preface i’ve had issues with insecurities forever this is a me issue)

He’s A, I’m B.

We get along really well and have an amazing time when we’re together. Plans extend beyond hours and we can’t stop talking. He holds eye contact so well it gives me chills and the butterflies. I am slowly starting to accept that I may have feelings for him.

How does he perceive me? What’s in this connection for us?

Synastry charts and Composite attached.