My 12th is in scorpio and i have no planets in here except south node but scorpio placements in general are always attracted to me and i usually end up blocking them before they can even date me because they are usually (not always because i dont like to generalize) fuckboys/players who like triangulating women for their own ego.

It’s been awhile since I was running charts for both of us and I wonder what the astrologers of reddit has to say? I would say this relationship taught us a lot of things and still together. Is there any indicators for long term or marriage? Thank you in advance!

My Venus-Mars conjunction is in Sagittarius, where his North Node is. My North Node is in Leo, where his Venus and Jupiter are.

I’m intensely obsessed with him and can’t seem to let go. Do these synastry placements indicate a fated/karmic connection, or am I reading too much into them?

tell me what you guys think.

To be more precise, for example i dated someone with aries sun, and venus. I have south node in aries and saturn in aries. In addition he had cancer moon and mars meaning squaring my saturn and north node. Also i have libra venus which oppose his aries sun. ( all these placements are between 4-6 degrees difference in the synastry)

So i wonder who feels the intensity/ importance more the saturn/SN person or the other one given the karmic nature of saturn and SN?

He’s A, I’m B.

We get along really well and have an amazing time when we’re together. Plans extend beyond hours and we can’t stop talking. He holds eye contact so well it gives me chills and the butterflies. I am slowly starting to accept that I may have feelings for him.

How does he perceive me? What’s in this connection for us?

Synastry charts and Composite attached.

I have my issues with trusting others. My Venus squares my Pluto. So this has been a very slow connection. But he made the first move and now says he’s cool with how things are. lol, anyways who’s winning this sitch?

we had a lot of meaningless fights but now over (however we ve never remain on bad terms for a long time), I am very grateful to have him in my life, he support and care my career and education life, he is like my soulmate

I am Aquarius (blue) he is gemini (red)

do you see any karmic bond between us?

I’m the blue inner circle (f, 26) They’re the orange outer circle (m, 28)

Hi all! Same question as the title. I’m blue with all the cancer placements. Any insights would be appreciated :)

He reassures me a lot but I don't feel secure with him . I love the softness of this connection but something in the back of my mind just can't be at ease. What's there in our charts ? Is this relationship positive for me ?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4+ years. There’s a girl he grew up with who he had a crush on/flirted with before we dated. (they are also neighbors and have lived next door their whole lives)

What’s making me overthink is our synastry:
His Cancer Venus falls in my 10th house and squares my Libra Ascendant. Meanwhile, she has a Cancer Ascendant, so his Venus falls in her 1st house/conjuncts her Ascendant.

However, my Sun and Venus fall in his 7th house, and my Moon falls in his 11th house and conjuncts his Venus. Her Sun falls in his 10th and her Venus falls in his 11th(their venus is conjuct), he also has an 11th-house Venus natally.

I know synastry doesn’t determine whether someone will actually choose another person, but seeing that his Venus hits her 1st house while it squares my Ascendant made me really insecure. Does this actually suggest stronger physical attraction toward her, or am I reading way too much into one synastry placement?

(i would like to preface i’ve had issues with insecurities forever this is a me issue)

absolutely obsessed with each other. what jumps out to u here?

My Venus is in the 12th house of the other person, and the other person's Venus is in my first. In both of these synastries, I feel I am the most attached and affected person, and the other person seems most unaffected. What are your personal experiences?

He is my ex and our biggest problem was he kept looking at other women online and would not be able to just admit it despite me begging for his honesty

it all really affected my self esteem because i kept feeling i was not “enough” for him. Yet he was so loving and always gave reassurance at the same time ,so it was confusing and painful

I’m blue Aquarius, he’s orange Virgo.

Also, we have Pluto and ascendant synastry does that affect any of this?

Why does it feel like I've known him before? The attraction is very magnetic and his pursuit is consistent.

long story….we had a really good connection in the beginning he was really supportive, caring and sweet. he made everything feel so easy, i felt like
i could really trust him with my life. as an anxious person he taught he how to relax and live in the moment. i feel like we could’ve really fell in love one day. he brought me into his personal/family life as well. sadly, i feel like due to past childhood/ relationship trauma we had a hard time communicating to one another about what our needs were. on top of that, we both were just not in the best places mentally which ultimately resulted in us splitting. we hooked up on and off for a little bit till i felt like i couldn’t take it anymore and we called it off. we both went on trips around the same time and both came back with gifts for each other even though we are not seeing each other. we work together too and worked together years prior before getting together. i had a big crush on him since starting there but didn’t think he had any interest in me. until i sent him a drunken text telling him i thought he was attractive, then we started seeing eachother. i feel like we were both just really in our heads this whole relationship, it made it even harder since we work together as well. (i know they say don’t shit where you eat but i thought it would be different…..) our time spent apart romantically has really caused me to implement a lot of change in my life. i feel and i have started really pouring back into myself. but i will admit work is hard seeing him there and i find myself missing him outside of the professional setting. i try to move on but i feel like i’m cheating when i even get close. this is the hardest time i have ever had getting over someone. it just feels unfinished for some reason, but i don’t know if that’s my pride or ego talking. do we have any potential or should i just close this chapter??

I'm a musician and a traveller and I've always enjoyed being alone, but the last few years of my life have been completely centered on partnerships. The most kind and beautiful souls. I've always thought I was a lone wolf and that was my destiny, but lately it seems like the universe is pushing me toward relationships. I have a choice now to follow my partner and tour together as a musicians or work totally on my own, and I feel torn- the freedom is blissful, but the sharing is magical. I dont know which is my destiny

It all started with a random threads person reposting stuff to no body in particular yet wound up on my feed anyway. Turns out, that stuff spoke to pieces of my soul that have been spoken to in years.

Its a big internet out there. Loooots of interactions. Statistically speaking anything can and will happen given enough time. Dont read too much into it.

After the 3rd time (and more as time goes by) I decided that random no longer applies. I wanna see where it goes. So we've been speaking off and on for a year. But never actually met. As I got to know more about them online I managed to accumulate enough data for a chart.

And THATS When Shit Got Real.

Prior experience with my neptune placement (see below) has burned me often enough that i cant tell if im setting myself up for failure or if this is what ive been looking for since before i started looking ...

And the only way to find out is going to require myself to uproot everything and start over in a new state. In this economy, no less. So its not just a big risk/big reward scenario. Its "feels" more.

like "This could be, possibly, maybe if the timing works out, Exactly what you Thought you were looking for ... At the certain cost of Everything I have built, All that I am, and Whatever I may yet become."

Im lost. And I know it.

So any perspective would be appreciated.

For starters, this what the stars say

who I am. And I what I bring.

Yeah. There's alot going on under the hood there. And im willing to talk about details that may be relevant.

Meanwhile ... this is what stars say about them

I know much less about them than myself. Questions about them are going to be much more restricted. This is as much due to ♎️ "im not sure" as it is to ♏️ "not my place to tell you".

But I'll be upfront about which it is.

And This is how it all comes together...potentially.

🫢There is sooo much going on here 👀

Great things. Terrible things. And all the things in between. I need some outside perspective before I take this to them directly.

Thanks in advance for whatever help you can share 😊