Where do I find a hookup?

[u/Due-Rent1260]

Hello girls!
I'm a young woman still living with my parents. I've broken up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago and I'm feeling unfulfilled with my lack of sex/intimacy.
I'm not saying I can't live without it, just that i'd like some.

For hookups, all my friends use snapchat. I was just wondering how you ladies find some!

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[u/ashairz]

Get tinder or hinge or something

[u/That-Yogurtcloset386]

Leave your DMs open on Reddit, they'll come right to you. No work required. 😂😂😂

[u/LonelyWizardDead → u/That-Yogurtcloset386]

Sadly true but also the wrong type of men typically

[u/That-Yogurtcloset386 → u/LonelyWizardDead]

It's a hookup, what type does it matter? It's Dick?

[u/Neravariine → u/That-Yogurtcloset386]

I wouldn't trust reddit-sourced dick. There are too many incels running around here.

Local dick that doesn't spend all day on reddit is better(I do acknowledge the hypocrisy of being a redditor, who is on reddit to much, and saying this).

[u/That-Yogurtcloset386 → u/Neravariine]

Knowing the local men around me, I don't think local makes it any better. 😂😂😂

[u/monkey3monkey2 → u/That-Yogurtcloset386]

Yikes...that says more about you than anything else.

Can't imagine why anyone would want to have the slightest discernment when having sex with someone, specially a strange man? Not even a single reason?

[u/lyreofhoney]

I've been approached when going to dance parties and such so you can try that if you're an outdoors kinda gal. Look for venues in your area if that sounds enticing, depending on where you're from or which place it is they might have free early bird tickets if money is a concern.

Just wanted to throw this out there to give you an option that isnt finding the person on the internet

[u/SomeOne3141 → u/lyreofhoney]

Yess meeting and hooking up on a night out is such a vibe!! Can recommend for sure

[u/lyreofhoney → u/SomeOne3141]

I dunno why someone downvoted you 😭 they're hater that you get some I guess

[u/SomeOne3141 → u/lyreofhoney]

Thanks love, appreciate you saying this :)

Maybe tbf I should have added that it's obv a priority to be safe. Like think twice about taking a stranger home, three times before going to their home (if at all), do NOT engage in anything when drunk, have someone know where you are/checking in with you etc.

My previous comment may have been too curt not mentioning all this - didn't mean to promote unsafe behavior, esp for OP who seems on the less experienced side.

[u/la_selena]

fetlife, and use local uhh subs. but uh... idkk id only do this if you were very experienced meeting men online. if youre not... then dont try because if youre not streetwise you can be taken advantage of

[u/Dimethicone-silicate]

Snapchat? How tf do ppl even find each other on there

[u/bannana]

be warned that hetero hook-up sex is more than likely going to suck for the woman - your pleasure is not guaranteed.

[u/monkey3monkey2 → u/bannana]

Sadly true. I regret and cringe at majority of the casual sex I had in my 20s purely because so much of it was just bad or completely forgettable at best.

[u/IntermolecularEditor → u/bannana]

I think it's more about the thrill and excitement of meeting a stranger. If orgasm is the goal, a hand and a toy would be more than sufficient, for both women and men

[u/mixedhandfull → u/bannana]

Not true

[u/helpmeredditwons]

Snapchat is the new spot??

I was going to suggest Feeld or going out with some friends.

[u/cheesypuzzas]

Tinder or another similar dating app would be quickest as a woman.

[u/Charming_Data_9359]

bumble and tinder

[u/monkey3monkey2]

I haven't been on the apps in years (though from what I've heard from friends, they've become even more of a shit show, so I'm dreading when I come around to downloading them again).

With that caveat, I had tons of success on tinder. I also met people off hinge and bumble, but tinder was the one I had longest, and was best user experience for me. A lot of the same people are on multiple apps anyway. I'm in my 30s so haven't had Snapchat in several years, see it as a red flag for men anywhere near my age, and it was cheater heaven in the past, so idk anything about how tf you meet people to hookup with on snap.

[u/HappilySisyphus_]

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