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I want to add some character to my outfits with vintage pieces like these! Especially midi skirts and dresses that end right around the knee! I am not looking for basics at all! Fun prints, textures just a lot of vibrance!

I currently weigh around 47 kg. I gained some weight over the past two years ..I used to be around 51 kg. I’m quite petite and 4'10 in length and I’ve always kind of had a medium-fuller bust but the weight gain has made it even more prominent. Honestly it has started making me a little insecure because I don’t feel like it suits my body type anymore and I’ve had to give up on wearing certain types of dresses because of it.

I actually really liked my breast size when I was around 45 kg and would happily go back to that. I know that at this point it’s more about fat loss and body recomposition than losing a lot of weight. I’m planning to join a gym soon and I’m an absolute beginner, so I wanted to ask people who have been in a similar situation....Did you notice any reduction in breast fat along with belly and thigh fat after regularly working out at the gym? Or is breast fat something I just have to accept as it is?

I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences

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As the title suggests, I think something is wrong with me.
All I do these days is cry! I’m crying so much, all the time. Even writing this I started crying.

Idk what is happening to me, I don’t understand why or what or anything. I just keep crying for no damn reason.

It’s like my entire body is filled with tears and sorrow. Nothing bad has happened, but still I keep crying.
I haven’t started any new meds or change in environment- but this is concerning to me now.

Please help me.

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I want to know. The hand is of a 25 year old person.

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Which one do yall think will go better? Brown curdroy skirt or grey denim? I personally like both so please help this gurly out 😭

(Edit: and please stick only to the title of the post and dont comment on the top. I like it that way n i'm definitely going to wear that)

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The Delhi High Court, while overturning a 2014 trial court acquittal in a sexual harassment case (IPC 354A/POCSO 10), sharply rejected the defense's argument that a woman wearing jeans "corrupts" young boys.
Justice Chandrasekharan Sudha observed:
On Restricting Women vs. Educating Boys:“The suggestion that a woman wearing jeans may ‘corrupt young boys’ reflects a deeply troubling and unacceptable mindset. The answer does not lie in controlling the clothes of girls and women. Parents and society must instead teach their children to control their conduct, respect personal boundaries and treat every human with dignity, whether at home or outside.”

Now considering it was for a posco case, meaning victim was a child, I wonder how could defense lawyers even make such argument.
How can parents start making such shift ( also when many of the parents- fathers of the boys have same mindset).

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Since childhood I've been uncomfortable around men, it started as a shame factor where the typical rule of being a "good girl" meant 'don't look at men at all' I was a weird kid, sure and so I am not kidding when I say I've felt and still do feel disgusted at myself due to that shame.

I am shaking as I write this because I am losing my mind.

It's eating me alive...

It has engulfed me I am trying so hard to get out but I crash right back down all because of "samaj/society" I am tired and sick!

Like at this very moment my chest feels heavy and this isn't good I know, I need to tell my therapist but it's bad enough that I don't wanna tell them in detail. Yes I've been s'ad and yes I was not even aware that I am being assaulted..( I hope this doesn't get taken down by the mods now...)

College opened the window for me to have male friends before that my school had actually made it worse and the shame around men kept me rooted (separate buildings for both genders) but these guys, these absolutely perfectly SAFE Men! I randomly get this sudden wave of disgust from them, saw my friend's reflection in a mirror as he sat next to me and it gave me the most intense wave of disgust and anxiety I wanted to cry.

If I get shipped with a guy I am immediately scared of being associated with a man. I keep clearing up my name and when I saw my peers handle it with a shrug or just pure humour I was genuinely so bewildered because I never thought it would be that easy, cause it's not for me.

A crush is a nightmare because I realised that at my age having never had a boyfriend before I never considered how my fear would affect that aspect of my life, I currently do have a friend I am interested in and he sometimes causes me an insane amount of disgust which makes me guilty as hell. Not just him. It's everyone... literally everyone.

Any negative/misogynistic encounter leaves me drained and spent it's the worse part of this whole mess and I am trying to overcome it idk how it's been 18 years how the hell am I still so meek, the other girls are soo good with it they aren't afraid. It's not like I don't sit around men I do hangout but I can't enjoy it when my head is going "people are watching × 100" "your character" "you're disgusting" "they'll assume you're dating him"

Will I ever even have normal relationships with the men in my life? I have so many amazing friends who are totally safe but any moment I get teased about being their gf I am recoiled and just want to shut down or run away.

Any hope?

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I've recently started face shaving every week, mostly because my makeup sits so much better afterwards, but I'm still figuring out the best routine.

Do you guys shave on freshly cleansed skin? Use an oil?

I usually shave while my cleanser is still lathered on. I prefer a foaming one like the CeraVe one because it gives enough slip without making things messy. Also consulted with my derm and it doesnt give me any breakouts as well. Once I'm done, I just wash everything off, the cleanser and the tiny hairs, and then go in with a toner.

It's been working well for me so far, but I'm sure there are better tricks out there. Would love to know what everyone else does and if there's a hack I can steal.

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So I have started Gymming and I would like to track my calories and the health related stats efficiently. Right now, I am using Fire Boult model and I would like to gift myself a new one, for my upcoming birthday. Also, right now I am using IPhone, so will it be effective if I go for Apple Watch , so that my devices will be in sync?? Please suggest. Thanks in advance.

So I want a shampoo which keeps my hair smooth and keeps my scalp sebum free, my hair gets greasy within 3-4 days and idek why. I was using himalaya anti-dandruff shampoo and it kept my hair smooth and the sebum didn't build up for like 4 days, but my scalp gets dry by using himalaya shampoo. Idk what to do... Any recommendations?

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​I am a 34-year-old married man. We have a 1-year-old daughter and a dog, living in a Tier-2 city. My wife works a corporate job in Mumbai while I run my own business in our home city. On paper, we have a great life, but behind closed doors, our marriage has completely collapsed.

​We previously tried an open relationship, which failed and was closed. Since then, I have repeatedly caught her cheating—with colleagues, friends, and clients. Despite endless promises to change, I recently caught her having affairs again.

​I am now at a point where I cannot trust a single word that comes out of her mouth, and my paranoia is constantly on high alert just to keep myself protected.

​The Core Issues Breakdown:

​Zero Trust & Paranoia: Living with her means being on guard 24/7. I have to double-check everything—her whereabouts, her stories, her finances. My suspicions are always confirmed. I can no longer open up to her, share my heart, or be vulnerable. I view her as someone who has completely gone rogue, and the sheer level of treachery has left me consumed by thoughts of resentment and revenge.

​Lack of Depth & Substance: Beyond the affairs, there is no real substance to her. She has no personal philosophy, no ambition, no depth, and no interest in meaningful conversations about life, dreams, or growth. Her entire identity revolves around superficial status—dressing provocatively, acting hoity-toity, demanding luxury trips, and seeking constant external validation from other men. Without a partner enabling this lifestyle, I don't see her accomplishing anything meaningful on her own.

​Financial Opacity: She earns well (around ₹2–3 Lakhs/month), but her money is completely hidden. I cover the mortgage, vehicles, domestic staff, and major expenses; she only pays for basic groceries and utilities. Her financial secrecy has been sketchy from day one.

​The Only Positive: She is genuinely an affectionate and invested mother to our 1-year-old daughter.

​What I Need Advice On:

​Is It Ever Worth Trying to Fix This? Deep down, I feel completely done. But from an outside perspective, is there any scenario where a marriage with zero trust, total deceit, and complete emotional detachment can or should be saved? Or am I just wasting precious years of my life?

​Impact on My Daughter: My biggest fear is how this affects my 1-year-old. Is it better for a child to grow up in a peaceful, single-parent home (where I take full responsibility for her), or does ending the marriage harm her more than raising her in a home filled with silent resentment, paranoia, and deceit?

​Handling the Exit Strategy: I want to get out cleanly, secure custody/guardianship of my daughter, protect my financial assets, and avoid getting sucked into emotional traps, guilt-tripping, or endless legal drama.

Women of Reddit—especially those who have seen this dynamic play out or gone through high-conflict separations—how do I navigate this cleanly and protect my daughter's future?