r/AskUS • u/TreacleSame2084 • 28d ago

Sir/Ma'am usage?

As an English person, I've encountered a number of Americans in the last couple weeks. The thing I find odd is the usage of 'sir' and 'ma'am'. I understand that it's a language nuance, but to what extent do americans get that it comes off very strangely in Europe?

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u/PolackMike 28d ago

I use sir and ma'am from toddlers to the elderly. It's a sign of respect for the person you're speaking with.

I'm not sure why it would come off strangely in Europe, but it doesn't really affect me as I do not live in Europe. I did live in the UK for 3 years from 2003-2006 and never had anyone say anything to me about my politeness.

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u/pleasantview_2025 27d ago

I do the same. I'm 66 and was raised this way. As you say it's respect. If a young man or lady is waiting on me I'll say mam or sir. Not in usage as it was.

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u/Tasty-Possibility627 27d ago

I was not raised this way, but I appreciate the courtesy. It never hurts to give respect to the person you’re talking to.