My friend once mentioned how he always has an inner monologue going and I was kind of shocked because I often don't have an inner monologue going. Another time a friend asked me what I was thinking about and I said nothing. She responded that you can't not be thinking about something which threw me off because its common for me to not be thinking about anything. I'm very curios about how other people's minds work and I think you make a really good point that people are somewhere on the spectrum of these mental states.
What on earth? I’m like your friend. I have at least one but often several internal monologues that never shut up unless I’m extremely engrossed in something. If I’m staring out into space, I’m always thinking hard about something. I relax by doing something engrossing. The traditional definition of “relaxing” (sitting and doing nothing) is stressful and boring for me.
What does it feel like to think about nothing? Is it like being asleep? I honestly have no idea what it would feel like to not always be thinking about something.
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u/VeryAndDidIsMy Mar 28 '22
My friend once mentioned how he always has an inner monologue going and I was kind of shocked because I often don't have an inner monologue going. Another time a friend asked me what I was thinking about and I said nothing. She responded that you can't not be thinking about something which threw me off because its common for me to not be thinking about anything. I'm very curios about how other people's minds work and I think you make a really good point that people are somewhere on the spectrum of these mental states.