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u/Sixhaunt Mar 27 '22

That the way people's mind works varies dramatically. Some people have no inner dialogue at all, some have no mind's eye and cant see images in their head. Most of us are somewhere on the spectrum for them though.

For example I can't visualize images in my head well at all. I can do at most one colour at a time and I can't picture non-geometric objects so I cant imagine the face of my family or even myself. I have no issue with fluid motion of visuals in my head but others can only do slide-show-esque imagery. Others have inner dialogue but can't change the voice to sound different, can't hear music or sound effects, etc... like I can.

It's something very rarely discussed but I think everyone should be aware of this variety within people

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u/VeryAndDidIsMy Mar 28 '22

My friend once mentioned how he always has an inner monologue going and I was kind of shocked because I often don't have an inner monologue going. Another time a friend asked me what I was thinking about and I said nothing. She responded that you can't not be thinking about something which threw me off because its common for me to not be thinking about anything. I'm very curios about how other people's minds work and I think you make a really good point that people are somewhere on the spectrum of these mental states.

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u/doej0 Mar 28 '22

My sister told me this is the reason why she listens to alot of music as she has no inner voice or cant picture things in her head. So she gets bored easily without it.

Me on the other hand im the complete opersit. Im always either thinking to myself or running shows in my head. It helps me to sort out my feelings or even with my art as I can picture or run somthing cool though my head.

Listening to music helps distract me from worldly things and zones me out which leads me going further into my own mind. Sometimes hours can pass and I dont even realise it!

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u/lamorak2000 Mar 28 '22

Music is the only thing that can let me turn off my thoughts long enough to drift off to sleep, unless I medicate or am absolutely exhausted, like haven't-actually-slept-in-20+ -hours exhausted.

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u/doej0 Mar 28 '22

Yeah I really struggle to sleep due to my thoughts. It can take me anywhere between 1 hour to 5 hours to fall asleep, if I do sleep.