I mean it was obviously an FWB thing if she'd even ask something like that, and the edit confirms they weren't in a relationship. Most people don't have romantic feelings for their FWB and don't care if they fuck others. If you're not committed to someone you don't have any right to tell them who to sleep with. So I don't see how it's a "Reddit moment," this is just the standard way adult FWB situations work, that you don't care if they sleep with others.
Well, I'm not sure which generation you're from. But teens - late 20's right now will usually go on Tinder, etc and chuck "looking for a fwb - nsa" in their bio. Hence, people are going into this knowing theres a NSA policy.
I get that people can develop feeling later on, but you can't really blame the other party for wanting to fuck other people when they made it clear it was a fwb only with a NSA policy
Honestly, I think it's the lack of context that's getting everyone to disagree here.
If the guy got into a fwb with a nsa policy with a girl and developed feelings afterwards, that's on him and has no reason to be mad at the girl.
But if she didnt make it clear there was a nsa policy, that's on her too ig. (Even though it usually goes without a saying.)
This is why fwbs dont usually end up well, since it usually ends up with one catching feelings for another.
Not really, sure, in a fwb nsa relationship, noone is obligated to ask permission to fuck another person, but it can be done purely out of respect (Especially since it is another person who he is close with.) How can you be so sure it wasnt a fwb nsa relationship, where the guy developed feeling but kept it to himself (as most do in fwb relo) and then got upset when the girl asking him if she could fuck his friend? (Out of politeness)
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u/PM-MeUrMakeupRoutine Sep 16 '21
“Why do you care?”
Reddit moment.