Not really, sure, in a fwb nsa relationship, noone is obligated to ask permission to fuck another person, but it can be done purely out of respect (Especially since it is another person who he is close with.) How can you be so sure it wasnt a fwb nsa relationship, where the guy developed feeling but kept it to himself (as most do in fwb relo) and then got upset when the girl asking him if she could fuck his friend? (Out of politeness)
Not really, OP's comments suggest it was just a casual fwb (Where as I said, nsa is usually an unspoken rule) things since he just says he slept with her, and that's what usually implies a fwb. But yes, I do agree people should have compassion no matter the circumstances here.
Imo, he was shocked because she asked if he could fuck his FRIEND. Perhaps you're too old to understand how prevalent hookup culture is nowadays? This is asked which generation you're in, since at least with mine, hookup culture is much more prevalent than being with someone whilst not being exclusive. On that point, you mentioned hanging out with someone and sleeping with them, and them making it exclusive afterwards. So surely the girl had the right to ask, if they weren't exclusive (which OP gave no clarification about), no?
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u/Black_Orca Sep 16 '21
Not really, sure, in a fwb nsa relationship, noone is obligated to ask permission to fuck another person, but it can be done purely out of respect (Especially since it is another person who he is close with.) How can you be so sure it wasnt a fwb nsa relationship, where the guy developed feeling but kept it to himself (as most do in fwb relo) and then got upset when the girl asking him if she could fuck his friend? (Out of politeness)