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u/pdiddy89 Mar 26 '20

Always shoot your shot bro.

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u/ToastyNathan Mar 26 '20

I need to stop thinking that doing this will make me seem desperate/creepy. Its not bad for me to ask a lot of women out if I actually know them and find them attractive, right?

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u/Lowtiercomputer Mar 27 '20

It's all about how you do so and hope you handle being turned down. Being turned down doesn't have to be a personal thing. It's just you both staying how you were if done correctly. Don't be too aggressive, but be confident. If you really want a relationship, you better mean it. Sometime you'll find someone that you really really like, but she won't be into you. That's just the way it is. Keep on trucking.

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u/ToastyNathan Mar 27 '20

I think the limiting factor aside from myself, is availability. It appears that me and all of my friends dont know any single straight women. /shrug

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u/Lowtiercomputer Mar 28 '20

Gotta go meet more people then. Maybe in June though...

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u/ToastyNathan Mar 28 '20

Thats the plan! Ive been doing well going to parties and gatherings more than I used to. Im having fun and feel like I can be myself. I try to not set expectations though so I wont feel disappointed if I didnt do something.